How would you proceed with this chick?

[GearsGod310]

Met this chick going out.
We've hung out about 3-4 times - All these times I've hung out with them she's always brought her friend along.
She always super affectionate with me, hugging me, saying she loves me.
Couple of times she's said she sees me like her brother.. LOL I just don't say anything.

2 out of the 4 times we hang out we make out.

The 3rd time I hung out with her at a bar and at the end we were kissing and I told her I wanted to fuvk her and she said no that she's going to regret doing it. Then she said ok let's do it I'll hit you up when I get home. I know where she lives so I headed that way and texted her "Im here" and called her once. No response from her. & I said to myself I'm never hitting her up again that was disrespectful.
After that a couple of days later I erased my IG because that sh1t distracts me too much and she hits me up 2 days later saying
"Hey love, how are you? I noticed your IG was gone and I was worried about you".
"I miss you I haven't seen you in a while".

I responded "All is good babe & it has been a while let see each other"
she said" Ok this weekend?" ... I said yea im down.

So this last Friday we hung out she told me her friend was going too and I said yea cool.
Her friend never showed up and it was just her and I at a rooftop bar. We had good convo then hopped to another bar.
Before we walked to the second bar we were talking in the car and started making out. Then I told her "Lets go flirt with people"
& she said "I'm down". When we were in there I started talking to different people, obviously she was right by me didn't leave my side and I
saw her talking to other guys and I was talking to other people and had a dude invite to his table because he wanted to introduce his girlfriends to me.
So I went she followed and I started talking to everyone at the table introducing my self and her. The girls at the table were vibing with me... bout 20 mins later
she tells me she has to go get her car or they'll tow it from the rooftop bar we were at. We told the group at the table we were going to pick up her car and come back.

Driving back we were just vibing listening to music. When we get to her car I start making out with her pull her panties down and start fingering her. (She was wearing a skirt).

I tell her "I can tell by the way you kiss you give good head" and she says " I'm not giving you head, I'm seeing someone and I'm going to feel bad".
I told her to shut up but not in an d1ck way. Keep fingering her and then I pull my jeans down and she goes for it. Long story short I tell her there's a hotel right next to the rooftop bar and she puts up very little resistance saying "what about my car" just little dumsh1t. I went to 2 different hotels and they had no fkn rooms hahah so we went back to my car and I smash there with no rubber.

After we driving home she texts me.
Her: "I'm so upset"
Me: "I honestly didn't expect tonight to go like that but daddy loved fkn you"
Her: "But I'm mad you didn't listen to me I loved it too tho ofc" - She was mad because I didn't put on a rubber.
Me: "Babe I never be doing that ****. I be taking care of myself"
Her: "Okay Okay your better not have got it in me bebe"
" I love being w you but I wanna take this guy kinda serious yk but you're so hard to resist "
Me: "I pulled out babe I think we're good .. trust me the last thing I'm tryna have is a kid"
" I like chillin babe. That's all I know. If you wanna keep it casual from now on thats no problem with me. But I wanna give you more"
Her: "I want us the same. But I need more"
"But I want us casual. & Next time with a rubber dammit lol"

Next few text we keep talking and she says she wants to see what I can really do in bed. I left to vegas on the weekend and I told her she'll see when I get back into town and she said she's looking forward to it.

Last day I talked to her was Saturday and I just texted her "babe I had a dream last night that you were being bad again"


TO ME SHE GIVES ME VIBES THAT SHE JUST WANTS CASUAL SEX WHICH IS FINE WITH ME. HOW WOULD YOU GUYS PROCEED?

 

[Clockwerk50]

Nice text game, bro.

Two quick thoughts that stood out to me. You probably already know this, but just to put it into words:

1. One of my close friends always used to tell me to “smash as early as you can since it kind of marks your territory.” His logic was that once you cross that line, things naturally shift into FWB mode, and you get clarity faster on what it really is.

2. A “plate” (or lover) is someone you casually hang out and hook up with; it’s a no-pressure, FWB type of situation. Most women start out in this casual space, and depending on how things go, and if both people are on the same page, it can grow into something more like a serious long-term relationship, it stays casual or it fades out. When you’re dealing with a plate/lover, you don’t worry about who else they’re seeing or what they’re doing, as long as they show up when you make plans and they are receptive, it’s all good. At the same time, you’re either vetting them to see if there’s long-term potential or keeping your eyes open for someone else who is.

With that out of the way, one of my girls that I am currently seeing started the same way as yours. Long story short, one of my offices was 10 minutes away from where she lived, and due to some hardcore game on the 3rd time we hung out, the girl was on pursuit and offered little resistance to come over; the only disclaimer was that she was not on birth control but we were already butt naked.

Basically, she arrived after everyone left, and after some kissing, we decided to have sex on my desk. The sex was uncomfortable, clunky, and painful since I bruised my knee. Regardless, I did use a condom, and I had to make her orgasm with my fingers since I really could not finish. The next couple of days, the text messages where similar to yours where she wanted to do it in a better place, with no time constraints, and she wanted to keep seeing me. She started looking for hotels, and the week or 2 after, we spend the whole afternoon in one having intercourse lmao. Last time saw her was last Thursday.

My advice is to keep her entertained until it naturally ends as she's already part of your rotation. No need to throw that away.

 

[GearsGod310]

Nice text game, bro.

Two quick thoughts that stood out to me. You probably already know this, but just to put it into words:

1. One of my close friends always used to tell me to “smash as early as you can since it kind of marks your territory.” His logic was that once you cross that line, things naturally shift into FWB mode, and you get clarity faster on what it really is.

2. A “plate” (or lover) is someone you casually hang out and hook up with; it’s a no-pressure, FWB type of situation. Most women start out in this casual space, and depending on how things go, and if both people are on the same page, it can grow into something more like a serious long-term relationship, it stays casual or it fades out. When you’re dealing with a plate/lover, you don’t worry about who else they’re seeing or what they’re doing, as long as they show up when you make plans and they are receptive, it’s all good. At the same time, you’re either vetting them to see if there’s long-term potential or keeping your eyes open for someone else who is.

With that out of the way, one of my girls that I am currently seeing started the same way as yours. Long story short, one of my offices was 10 minutes away from where she lived, and due to some hardcore game on the 3rd time we hung out, the girl was on pursuit and offered little resistance to come over; the only disclaimer was that she was not on birth control but we were already butt naked.

Basically, she arrived after everyone left, and after some kissing, we decided to have sex on my desk. The sex was uncomfortable, clunky, and painful since I bruised my knee. Regardless, I did use a condom, and I had to make her orgasm with my fingers since I really could not finish. The next couple of days, the text messages where similar to yours where she wanted to do it in a better place, with no time constraints, and she wanted to keep seeing me. She started looking for hotels, and the week or 2 after, we spend the whole afternoon in one having intercourse lmao. Last time saw her was last Thursday.

My advice is to keep her entertained until it naturally ends as she's already part of your rotation. No need to throw that away.

Lol thank you brother and good stuff man!
How it going so far with this girl you're seeing? I'm curious to know.

I texted this chick - "Babe I had a dream last night that you were being bad again"

She replied - "I'm always being bad boo"

I replied - "Are you free on the weekend? & how are things going babe"
"I am too so we're going to have to be bad together soon bebe"

so we'll see how it goes haha

 

[Clockwerk50]

Lol thank you brother and good stuff man!
How it going so far with this girl you're seeing? I'm curious to know.

I texted this chick - "Babe I had a dream last night that you were being bad again"

She replied - "I'm always being bad boo"

I replied - "Are you free on the weekend? & how are things going babe"
"I am too so we're going to have to be bad together soon bebe"

so we'll see how it goes haha

It’s alright.

Make sure you get your planning and logistics in place in case you want to continue seeing her.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I texted this chick - "Babe I had a dream last night that you were being bad again"

She replied - "I'm always being bad boo"

Generally texting women as if you are 16 years old has a fast expiry date

Some women will play along for a couple of weeks whilst things are running hot but eventually saying crap like this is going to get you left on seen

I would dial the emotion and sexual dependency down very very quickly

 

[Barrister]

“Don’t worry, I know I pulled out JUST in time. We’re good.”

How many dads have said something similar over the years during conception I wonder?

 

[misua]

Sounds like she’s into you but kinda all over the place. She wants the fun but feels guilty after. I’d just keep it chill and see where it goes don’t chase too hard. Let her show you what she really wants.

 

[darksprezzatura]

I will proceed by thinking about my life and what’s my next mission

 

[ValiantMale]

Good stuff man. This whole post reminds me of a younger me. I would just keep having fun and focus on other women as well, definitely keep an abundant mindset moving forward. I don't know how much experience you have with women overall but if you haven't had many casual relationships, be prepared for some feelings to develop when you actually start having proper sex with her in the bedroom. It's only natural.. Try to not let your emotions get in the way of your friendship too, especailly beause shes bound to be seeing and sleeping with other guys... having a long term FWB that you are very close to can have serious perks.