"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How would you deal with this guy?

Viper

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Viper this is the point where you just stop talking forever. Just see how it works. I believe there is a bottom of a cliff with your name on it.
I'll stop TYPING when you stop making stupid comments in my topic. If there's a cliff on the bottom with my name on it, then there's a place at the bottom of the sea for you, if you don't get it, your stupider than I thought. Now stop spamming my topic, faggot.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Viper
I'll stop TYPING when you stop making stupid comments in my topic. If there's a cliff on the bottom with my name on it, then there's a place at the bottom of the sea for you, if you don't get it, your stupider than I thought. Now stop spamming my topic, faggot.

you haven't answered my post.

why do you think that everybody agrees with oak and says that you should listen to advice, rather than always trying to be right?

WE ALL ARE SAYING THAT, MAN
 

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