"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How women attract men (sneaky)

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Lars Porsenna said:
"The man goes after the woman", "makes the first step", "that has been natures way forever?"

Guys, that is pretty delusional. Read more closely. Females chose you. That is exactly what is happening when she is "fiddling with her shoe laces", "sitting on the bench beside you" etc. pp. This principle of "Female Choice" can be found in every higher mammal (!!). Females pick you and are very skilled to offer you a situation to approach her. And giving you the illusion of having done your own chosing.

Its all been described here. We just have to be correct about the "first step" and the "chosing".
Totally agree.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yup, thats why whenever a girl tries the "you know you want me" line, or whatever, I just say "well, you wanted me, but we both know u didnt have the balls to approach, so I figured I'd make it easier on ya. hows it goin today"

I approach with the mindset of "I am doing you a favor, since you obviously want me" of course, I usually want her too :D

with this mindset, there is no "failure"
 

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skeeloo said:
that's true im sooo used to the games and all that, that i just make sure a girl dont waste my time that way you'll limit time wasting .
"Get that bi1ch on seven digits. And when you call her, ask that little trick what's up, and if she hesistate, nig*a hang up, wooooord up! And let that bi1ch meditate to the dial tone, and tell her call me when you ready to bone!"
 

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Lars Porsenna said:
Females chose you. That is exactly what is happening when she is "fiddling with her shoe laces", "sitting on the bench beside you" etc. pp. This principle of "Female Choice" can be found in every higher mammal (!!). Females pick you and are very skilled to offer you a situation to approach her. And giving you the illusion of having done your own chosing.
It's really both that choose, at least since the introduction of rape laws. So we scout for high indicators of interest, such as proximity. Proximity is a key indicator, especially when she's doing nonsense, like fiddling with her shoelaces, doing stretches at the 50-yard line in the middle of a run around a track, going to get a book then not getting it (because it wasn't the book she really wanted), that indicates she's waiting. And sometimes she'll say hi first, as she passes by, before setting up the approach.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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:down: In conclusion, women are crazy but men are much more crazy since we accept their dumb behavior and it seems that we like it...:moon:
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
yup, thats why whenever a girl tries the "you know you want me" line, or whatever, I just say "well, you wanted me, but we both know u didnt have the balls to approach, so I figured I'd make it easier on ya. hows it goin today"

I approach with the mindset of "I am doing you a favor, since you obviously want me" of course, I usually want her too :D

with this mindset, there is no "failure"

That reminded me of an episode when I was out clubbing a few years back. I walked into a new club with a friend and we started having drinks and doing the club thing. Then, two hot girls walked out from the bar directly behind us and just stood there in the middle of the floor. It was only a few seconds till I turned around and saw her, but it was kind of an odd feeling. She was just sitting there with her arms crossed looking right at me, sort of tapping one foot waiting for something. It was then that I decided to skip all intermediate steps and just start making out with her. She was very into it and has no reservations or anything...but...UM, there was a problem. She was an UNDERCOVER SHERRIFF who was on a sting operation. There must have been 10 police officers in the club watching this spectacle and some of them couldn't stop laughing . Later that night, I get to txting with her and she said "you know you just wanted the ass" to which I responded "so did you!"
 
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