"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How Will This Benefit Me?

Maximus Rex

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When I see some newbie muthaf*cka that's about to do some counterproductive dumb sh*t that will either impede, stall, or just completely and totally f*ck up his game with broad, I'll ask this question when a dude is either considering texting a chick who hasn't returned his text or when he wants to make another attempt at asking a woman out that has either not responded to his initial invitation to a date or has flaked on him.

When you're dealing with a chick, (especially at the beginning stages of getting to know her,) you need to know beforehand the likely outcome of any action and/or request that you make of her. Most importantly, you need to know how that request or action is going to benefit you or help you achieve your goal, whether it's asking for her name, number, sex, or a relationship.

This isn't about manipulating a broad, but rather implementing the Law of Reciprocity and understanding the feminine mind. If we do something nice for a friend, more than likely our potna will reciprocate somewhere down the line. Being that logical beings that we are, as men, we figure that if we do something nice or do something displaying our interest in a woman will cause her to respond in kind, however, that isn't the case with women. Literally, since their childhood, women have become accustomed to people wanting to do things for them and heap attention their way simply because. When they hit puberty, women soon discover that men will do all types of dumb ass sh*t, (namely simpin' and trickin',) just to win their affection.

Though women can be some of the most asinine and capricious beings walking the earth at times, they're not as dumb not to know when a dude is trying to hit that ass. That's why it's imperative that you keep giving her the game that she's thirsting for. As the old pimpin' proverb clearly states, "how you start with a b*tch, is how you end with a b*tch. If you come at a woman on some simp/trick sh*t, forever a simp/tick you'll be.

So before you send that text, issue an unwarranted compliment, buy her some clothes, drop $200 dollars at Cipriani, or just dumb out and pay her bills, you need to ask yourself, how will this benefit me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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