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How to win in life ?

Zincsaurav

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Read the DJ bible and The Rational Male.

You are young so avoid single moms.

Plan dates you would actually enjoy regardless of company. Focus on ejoying the date, banging the girl is a secondary objective.

Find your purpose, girls are a secondary objective.

Find a girl who has a higher sex drive than yours. This is not easy but if you can find one it will make your life way easier.

Again, because you are young, its easier to find a virgin who passes the boner test. As you age, it will be harder and harder to find a virgin, so If you can land a virgin who passes the boner test, keep her.
What is a boner test
 

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Do what others won't or don't do. Doesn't matter what you want to do.

Work hard, have purpose, stay the course, read, learn, listen, keep improving, never give up.
 

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andreihaha

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What's the purpose of this life you have? If you don't know yet, keep looking. If you only have short-term goals, keep looking. If you don't believe in anything, you are limiting yourself.

Usually the best thing to do, when you don't know what to do, is to help someone else. And also, please don't waste the little time you have!
 

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If what you want is happiness and peace of mind in life, here are some things to consider...

Happiness is found in doing, not just in merely possessing things or reaching the destinations; for the feelings back of these conditions are fleeting pleasures. Like others have mentioned, find out what your proclivities and gifts and talents are and throw yourself into developing them whole-heartedly. When we love to do something, it's not work to us. It's something that brings us joy and fulfillment in and of itself, just by being engaged in it. Furthermore, perhaps this talent can be used to serve others in exchange for an equivalent compensation. Search for ways to manifest that. If you realize this, you will find happiness in life, even if you're a celibate, poor man.

Where peace of mind is concerned, it deals with the problem of our relations with the people we encounter in life. The man who achieves peace of mind expresses nothing but good will for others; he sincerely desires for them what he does for himself: prosperity, love and well-being. This is two-fold. He refuses to treat others in ways that are damaging and offensive to them, and also he harbors no bitterness and grudges for those who have wronged him. The man who is at peace with himself and the world doesn't treat anyone the way he wouldn't want to be treated, and he feels no hatred or animosity when he thinks of those who have wronged him in the past. This is a result of a resolve he has definitely decided upon.

Blessed is the man who serves others in accordance with his talents and prospers as a result of these efforts, and also recognizes that those who offend him are also offending others in the same way, and are thus bringing compounded contempt for themselves, bringing them unhappiness and misery. In this regard, he is compassionate and feels empathy and pity for them, rather than a selfish rage.

Such a man becomes enlightened. Such a man becomes a god among men.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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find your own unique skills that can satisfy the following requirements:

1) You are good at them and there is a lot of upside potential for skill development.

2) They can earn you some money, someday. Big money potential. This requires never ending market research.

3) You enjoy doing them, or at least they don't suck.

Then it's full speed ahead until you're dead.

Also, always improve basic skills like social skills, speaking skills, persuasion skills, high levels of articulation, social intelligence, etc.

All else equal, having more of these is much better than having less.
 

Zincsaurav

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If what you want is happiness and peace of mind in life, here are some things to consider...

Happiness is found in doing, not just in merely possessing things or reaching the destinations; for the feelings back of these conditions are fleeting pleasures. Like others have mentioned, find out what your proclivities and gifts and talents are and throw yourself into developing them whole-heartedly. When we love to do something, it's not work to us. It's something that brings us joy and fulfillment in and of itself, just by being engaged in it. Furthermore, perhaps this talent can be used to serve others in exchange for an equivalent compensation. Search for ways to manifest that. If you realize this, you will find happiness in life, even if you're a celibate, poor man.

Where peace of mind is concerned, it deals with the problem of our relations with the people we encounter in life. The man who achieves peace of mind expresses nothing but good will for others; he sincerely desires for them what he does for himself: prosperity, love and well-being. This is two-fold. He refuses to treat others in ways that are damaging and offensive to them, and also he harbors no bitterness and grudges for those who have wronged him. The man who is at peace with himself and the world doesn't treat anyone the way he wouldn't want to be treated, and he feels no hatred or animosity when he thinks of those who have wronged him in the past. This is a result of a resolve he has definitely decided upon.

Blessed is the man who serves others in accordance with his talents and prospers as a result of these efforts, and also recognizes that those who offend him are also offending others in the same way, and are thus bringing compounded contempt for themselves, bringing them unhappiness and misery. In this regard, he is compassionate and feels empathy and pity for them, rather than a selfish rage.

Such a man becomes enlightened. Such a man becomes a god among men.
Thank you for your advice . I will keep that in mind.
 

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Don’t watch TV
Get into property/business ownership
Always stay loyal to yourself, be proud, value yourself
Be selfish while young
There’s nothing you can’t handle in life with resilience and perseverance
 
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