"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to utilise, handle this scenario well-three younger women

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There are three younger women who are in their early 20s(all of them are cousins-not my cousins mind you) who I believe has taken a liking to me, they also look at almost all of my Instagram stories. Quiet attractive young women too.

I see them at functions, parties, events.

I feel I'm keeping the intrigue, curiousity, mystery still there.

I feel due to my maturity, intelligence, success, I keep myself in shape, wear good clothes, their is maybe some attraction their too.

I'm not giving out much info.

Maybe next time I see them, try to strike up a convo? For now, don't keep being so interested in them? don't keep looking at their Instagram stories etc.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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