"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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B-Lemond

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Step 1: www.sosuave.net

Step 2: Look at the bottom of this post. What do you see? Right. 'The DJ Bible'. Click on 'The DJ Bible'.

Step 3: Read 'The DJ Bible'

Step 4: Go out and apply the knowledge you just learned.

Step 5: Repeat Steps 1-4 until you have finished reading and applying the knowledge from 'The DJ Bible'.

Step 6: At this point you should have enough knowledge to be out there (in the field) with confidence by yourself. Now you start learning new things. Experiment. Experiment. Experiment. Learn new information through your attempts and observations.

Step 7: If you want to share you knowledge post it.
If you have a question do a search beforehand. IF your answer is not found, make a new thread.

Your question will most likely be answered by KBDJ who (if you have read 'The DJ Bible', will not know anything you don't know.) Everyone once in a while a DJ comes along and answers your post. But this DJ is not busy roaming around the forum. Instead he is busy roaming around the field. Observing. Experimenting. Learning.

Step 8: By now you should be very knowledgeable and you are now one of those DJs that come along every so often to answer, help, or discuss with a fellow DJ.

Step 9: If you are still hungry for knowledge, you may go to www.fastseduction.com.
Learning pick-up is only a part of a DJ. You may use these same principles to help you learn how to become a PUA.



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Edit by Vincent: A quick edit because the DJ bible link has moved.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Solid advice bluelemond. I'm gonna sticky this for....like forever.
 
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