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Master Don Juan
In "law of attraction" circles, they say you're better off focusing on what you've got, rather than what you haven't got.
The theory is that if you focus on lack, you'll get more lack.
If you focus on abundance, you'll get more abundance.
Makes sense, right?
How can you leverage this to get more success with women?
Here's a tale of two guys. Both haven't been laid in a while. Both would kill for some action.
First guy's walking down the street,sees a cutie. He catches her eye, she kind of smiles at him before breaking off eye contact.
He thinks to himself, "I'll NEVER get a girl like her!" And looks down at the ground dejectedly. He sticks his hands in his pockets, heads down to the local bar, and goes on a bender, wallowing in his own poverty mindset.
Second guy's walking down the street, sees the same girl, and gets the same reaction. Only he thinks:
"Wow, there sure are a lot of cuties out today. I wonder how many I'll make eye contact with?"
The first guy focused on what he doesn't have (a girlfriend).
The second guy focuses on what he DOES have (opportunities).
Now, obviously, just switching you're thinking like this isn't going to make horny females rain down from the heavens, begging to jump on your johnson.
But it WILL create a much more outgoing, confident, and charismatic attitude. It won't happen overnight, but if you FORCE your brain to think like the second guy, in a short while you'll be not only making eye contact, but you'll be talking to and number closing more and more girls.
Because you will have trained your brain to associate the idea of "plenty of women out there" with each and every girl you see.
Now, because focusing on lack is much, much more natural, this is going to take some time. If you read this, agree that it's a good idea, you'll likely forget about it next time you see a cute girl out there.
Which is why you'll need to think of this exercise just like it is: Exercise.
Meaning you go out to exercise your brain, and your frame, just like you'd specifically go running every day, or go to the gym every day.
This isn't some kind of magic mind shift to make everything easier. But just imagine, for a moment, if you were to go out, force yourself to make eye contact, and after every single interaction, you forced yourself to focus on all the opportunities, rather than the stuff you want but don't have.
Pretty soon it would get easier and easier, and it would become more and more natural, and you'd have a much more positive and attractive frame.
Which of course, would get you a LOT more action.
The theory is that if you focus on lack, you'll get more lack.
If you focus on abundance, you'll get more abundance.
Makes sense, right?
How can you leverage this to get more success with women?
Here's a tale of two guys. Both haven't been laid in a while. Both would kill for some action.
First guy's walking down the street,sees a cutie. He catches her eye, she kind of smiles at him before breaking off eye contact.
He thinks to himself, "I'll NEVER get a girl like her!" And looks down at the ground dejectedly. He sticks his hands in his pockets, heads down to the local bar, and goes on a bender, wallowing in his own poverty mindset.
Second guy's walking down the street, sees the same girl, and gets the same reaction. Only he thinks:
"Wow, there sure are a lot of cuties out today. I wonder how many I'll make eye contact with?"
The first guy focused on what he doesn't have (a girlfriend).
The second guy focuses on what he DOES have (opportunities).
Now, obviously, just switching you're thinking like this isn't going to make horny females rain down from the heavens, begging to jump on your johnson.
But it WILL create a much more outgoing, confident, and charismatic attitude. It won't happen overnight, but if you FORCE your brain to think like the second guy, in a short while you'll be not only making eye contact, but you'll be talking to and number closing more and more girls.
Because you will have trained your brain to associate the idea of "plenty of women out there" with each and every girl you see.
Now, because focusing on lack is much, much more natural, this is going to take some time. If you read this, agree that it's a good idea, you'll likely forget about it next time you see a cute girl out there.
Which is why you'll need to think of this exercise just like it is: Exercise.
Meaning you go out to exercise your brain, and your frame, just like you'd specifically go running every day, or go to the gym every day.
This isn't some kind of magic mind shift to make everything easier. But just imagine, for a moment, if you were to go out, force yourself to make eye contact, and after every single interaction, you forced yourself to focus on all the opportunities, rather than the stuff you want but don't have.
Pretty soon it would get easier and easier, and it would become more and more natural, and you'd have a much more positive and attractive frame.
Which of course, would get you a LOT more action.