"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how to tell if a chick has low selfesteem?

Ryan Adams

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In person shes nieve and friendly. But she seems to have super low self esteem. Is this a redflag
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It just means you'll have to carry extra weight in the relationship. She'll require more nurturing. Be on the look out for neediness and codependency from her...
 

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well I've known her for years she moved and just recently came back. Shes a bar chick always getting drunk but just seems to be very unsure of herself sometimes. I dont sense neediness. but I do sense a bit of games from her, feels like she is playing the field a bit. Weve made out and messed around back in the day nothing more. nurturing her did nothing I tried that with her 2 years ago and she wouldnt have it Its almost as if she didn't like it. Very hot and cold girl. one night shes all over next I dont hear from her. She has horrible ADD she said.
 
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