Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Its just Male nature to think about women all the time.
Well i do constantly think about my ex no matter how much i try not to
If you're gonna think about women, think about how great the next batch of women you are going to meet are & how they'll put your ex to shame.
That`s what i have in mind right now gonna start hitting the gym January i wanna take a six months break from everything and just constantly work on myself
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You'll thank yourself for it brother. Self care is extremely important. A high value male values every facet of his life & how to make himself feel as good as he possibly can on his own without a woman FIRST. You can make incredible progress in 6 months time in the gym, literally transform into a different person if you wanted to & work hard enough. As often as you hear some girls say they prefer the dad bod look, rarely will a chick turn down the idea of hot sex with a guy who looks like a damn Greek statue when naked. It also shows you're a hard worker & are dedicated to a goal & seeing it through. If you're trying to get a bit bigger muscle wise, check out Mike Mentzers "high intensity training" book. Fantastic resource for getting bigger and stronger in a quick period of time.
