"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to stop caring about b*tchy responses

evan12

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When I talk with some women , some of them respond in b*tchy mode , I get bothered by that some times , is there any advise to over come of that , I feel I am over sensitive to these things .
for example :
me : do you need this chair
her (in *****y moode) : take it

if some one has a good response to such these b*ches it would be better , because I feel after their answer I want to revenge in some how .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sneevox

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evan12 said:
When I talk with some women , some of them respond in b*tchy mode , I get bothered by that some times , is there any advise to over come of that , I feel I am over sensitive to these things .
for example :
me : do you need this chair
her (in *****y moode) : take it

if some one has a good response to such these b*ches it would be better , because I feel after their answer I want to revenge in some how .
Just laugh it off and don't give it a second thought. She sees you laugh and it will piss her off.
 

ThisIsFate

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In the same light as Sneevox's advice; don't be sarcastic, don't be snide, just give her a genuine smile. Works wonders
 

Epimanes

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Just dont feed into the moment. Be like Cesar Milan.. Calm assertive. Shrug .. and let it roll off your back. Then make some ****y remark to lighten her mood ... chances are she didnt even know her "tone" was off ..
 

Brosy

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Just smirk and say "alright d**k-ed!" in a patronising tone.

Works wonders, these girls only get like this because they are invariably hot and the halo effect means 90% of men let them get away with bratty behaviour.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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vatoloco

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Google "Agree & Amplify" and "Amused Mastery"
 
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