"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to stay out of jail, when things get physical

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wiesman44

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uhh...... ok ? What caused the argument and what was she saying ? All i see in this video is a woman screaming and trying to hit some black guy
 

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Seems like somebody hit somebody before the camera started rolling.

But only one person hit another person while the camera was rolling...and the police where there.

Very dumb move.
 

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FairShake said:
Seems like somebody hit somebody before the camera started rolling.

But only one person hit another person while the camera was rolling...and the police where there.

Very dumb move.
After reading the comments on youtube, it looks like:

"The girl poured beer on the dude's head and tore up his vikings sign because she was rooting for the lions. "

It's funny she got so worked up over the Lions. Typically they lost.

They wouldn't be able to score a touchdown even if the other team basically handed it to them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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