"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How To Start Each Day With A Positive Outlook

Ken785

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HOW TO START EACH DAY WITH A POSITIVE OUTLOOK

1. Create a new file folder on your computer desktop.
2. Name it 'Your Inner AFC'.
3. Drag it to the recycle bin.
4. Empty the recycle bin.
5. Your PC will ask you, 'Do you really want to get rid of 'Your Inner AFC?'
6 Firmly Click 'Yes.'
7. Feel better instantly.

...is this small tip bible worthy?? -Ken785
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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comic_relief

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Ken785 said:
HOW TO START EACH DAY WITH A POSITIVE OUTLOOK

1. Create a new file folder on your computer desktop.
2. Name it 'Your Inner AFC'.
3. Drag it to the recycle bin.
4. Empty the recycle bin.
5. Your PC will ask you, 'Do you really want to get rid of 'Your Inner AFC?'
6 Firmly Click 'Yes.'
7. Feel better instantly.

...is this small tip bible worthy?? -Ken785
HAHAHAHA!!!

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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3countriesPlan

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lol I just did it on the Chinese version of Windows.. did you make that up or did u see it on some angelfire page? ha
 
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