"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to: second sex friend

TheMale

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hello people,

last thursday night i was out and a chick wanted to pick me up
long short story she wanted a relationship, told her i wasnt ready, she got it and tonight she just sent me a message
her: what do you think about friend with benefits ?
me: thought about it but wanna make sure youre note doing it so you can be kinda with me
her: no just benefites

so basically its my second sex friend, you can ask: so why do i opened this thread ?
thing is my first and i eont live in the aame country so im seeing her only once a year so its not really a problemw when i see her 3 time in august

i wanna know: how to deal with it?
what is the guideline or rule i need to aply to not make her want this relationship thing or not just destroy the friendship?
what fun things can we do together?
and how to set up with her or explain her the rules and the way its gonne be ?

thx guys
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheMale said:
what fun things can we do together?
Bullsh1t - you wanna brag, which is why you posted this trite crap.

What fun things do you THINK you can do together when you see each other?... for chris-sakes... what is this world coming to.... :trouble:
 

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You dont live in the same country, see eachother only a few times a year, yet are asking us what fun things you can do with a chick you dont want to have get attached to you...


Sound the troll alert.
 

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i see tge first one only few times a year
the second one (one from yesterday) live in my hometown so im gonna see her a lot

when i said fun things i meant yeah its for sex but while we are in
bed together what fun things can i do ?
its not a ***** so im not gonna go to her place **** and come back home i will feel like a man *****
i know that when i was i was in a relationship and i was in bed with my ex i did a lot of funny thing with her that gave us a serious laugh

oh maybe the problem is that i said fun instead of funny ?

btw im not penetrating due to a religiois point of view but im doing all the pre sex
and i want that friendship remain a secret (no one have to know whats going on in my life)
how do i let her know and talk to her abour these 2 last things ?
 
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TheMale said:
i see tge first one only few times a year
the second one (one from yesterday) live in my hometown so im gonna see her a lot

when i said fun things i meant yeah its for sex but while we are in
bed together what fun things can i do ?
its not a ***** so im not gonna go to her place **** and come back home i will feel like a man *****
i know that when i was i was in a relationship and i was in bed with my ex i did a lot of funny thing with her that gave us a serious laugh

oh maybe the problem is that i said fun instead of funny ?

btw im not penetrating due to a religiois point of view but im doing all the pre sex
and i want that friendship remain a secret (no one have to know whats going on in my life)
how do i let her know and talk to her abour these 2 last things ?
A religiois reasons. I get that. Religioin is very important. Moron.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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why are you even commenting if its to say dumb sh!t ?!

religion is important for me so respect that
i opened this thred to asked some help about something i dont know, and all i get is some duch who think they re funny with their comment.

get the hell outta my thread and let some mature people help me !
 
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