"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to Score with Middle-Aged Women?

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I'm a 26-year-old guy who's keen on women that are well in to their 40's. I've never bedded a woman older than me because I've never approached older women; I've always been afraid of coming off as "perverted" or being dismissed by these oldies with a comment like, "You're young enough to be my son!" I don't think middle-aged women are interested due to the following:

* most middle-aged women ARE already married;
* most middle-aged women want somebody in a similar age-range; and
* most middle-aged women aren't into casual sex.

So I have all of the above-mentioned going against me. (I know there are cougars, but they seem to be in the vast minority.) So, any ideas on how to pursue oldies?

Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sodbuster said:
WHY? I'm 50 and I'd rather pull younger than 40.
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Because f**king a mature, busty experienced woman is a desire I want to fulfil.
 
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I TOTALLY agree with the OP. I'm 24, and fvcking woman in her 40's would be amazing...and its definitely on my to-do list!!!

I'm interested to see where this thread goes..

A question to the OP, have you tried going to bars that are more well known for having older women in? Chances are, if the older women are out and about drinking and flirting, they are up for it!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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F!DELITY said:
I TOTALLY agree with the OP. I'm 24, and fvcking woman in her 40's would be amazing...and its definitely on my to-do list!!!

I'm interested to see where this thread goes..

A question to the OP, have you tried going to bars that are more well known for having older women in? Chances are, if the older women are out and about drinking and flirting, they are up for it!
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There is one particular bar that I know of which older people frequent. I went there just the other week. However, all the old girls were surrounded by older guys or other older women, and I couldn't isolate any of them. And even though I got a few smiles from some old, sexy girls, I was too WEAK to approach. (Again, it's what I wrote in this thread-starting post -- I'm afraid of how they might dismiss me.)
 
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Ok - First of all, don't be afraid. You will be perceived as the handsome young man. You have the advantage over the older woman, because you are in your prime. They are not.

And dude, women will ALWAYS welcome compliments/flirtations!!! ALWAYS!!! - they're not gonna suddenly call the cops on you because your mid twenties and you are making moves on a woman in her forties!!!

They will be flattered....their life might be stale/predictable/routine/boring - they may be in marriages of convenience....have a sexual appetite which is not being satisfied.....and of course some are single!

My advice, flirt - and particulary if you are out in that bar having a few drinks, discretely let them know you find them sexy, and you want her!! - A friend of mine fvcked some 50yr old by doing pretty much that, said she was the filthy! (in the good way! :) )

ALSO, in your everyday life, flirt with mature women...they are EVERYWHERE!!

Keep me posted on this, as I too am gonna try and get with an older woman - perhaps we can exchange info/progress?...
 
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