"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to relax?

rhcp83

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I put on 7 pounds recently due to a change in meds. For whatever reason, for about 2 weeks it made me have an insatiable appetite. Now I weigh 180 (6 ft) but the weight went to my gut. I was kind of skinny fat at it is, but now it's like a beer gut.

My goal is to get my body back in good condition before I pursue any woman (unless I just happen to meet one by mistake)...how do I curb the sex drive besides masturbation?

I've found if anything, masturbation and porn makes me hornier. It isn't even the sex I crave, it's touching a woman's body...but like I said, I'd rather look better body wise before pursuing anything.

So how do I avoid those horny highs without excessive masturbation? (Also taking into consideration the working out and seeing hotties at the gym will make me even hornier.)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chamber36

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either u fvck prostitutes or you try and hold in your sperm and channel your sexual energy up into your skull.
 

idk575

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Why would you ever want to stop that? You go to the gym, so f*ck anyone else who doesn't like you dude. The only time a man should want to stop that is when he's dead.
 
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