This girl I know said that she was on the verge of breaking up with her boyfriend but doesn't have the courage to do so.. they've been together for 5 years, she said the feeling is no longer there but she's afraid to cut the ties. How do I "push" her to the finally break up with him?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
how to "push" her into breaking up with her boyfriend?
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SamTheHobit
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Woah 5 years of being fvcked by another guy.
I guess everyone has there own standards.
I guess everyone has there own standards.
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you wasting her time, and she is lying to youchaos86 said:
1.she is not going to leave him for you
2.if she leaves him for you, she is going to cheat on you when she see's the next best thing
if you like this girl let her go and on down the line if they brake up and she wants to be with you then cool
but your being afc trying to take a girl from her bf just because she flirts with you
when actually your boasting up her self esteem and giving her attention when in turn you get nothing
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
bukowski_merit
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If she's telling you this stuff: Chances are high that she'll cheat with you.chaos86 said:
But don't think for a second that that's the end of it.... Drama.... Flip-flopping... lying... and all that nonsense will follow....
If you want to cheat with her: Just invite her over your house and have a good reason besides sex.
If you want to cheat with her: Be ready for all of the above... And if you're not careful - a broken heart (your own)....
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I been in two situations like this
the first the girl had a bf, and she was cheating on him with me, a year or two down the line me and her dated for a few months, we broke up and she ended up with another guy and they got married
second time me and this chick was going out on dates, I was buying her things to win her affection, this chick was the perfect 10, I tried everything in my might to make her leave her bf, it never happened, we ended up fighting I called her a b*tch and we never talked again
it is a waste of time doing this bro, take it from me and find another girl who is single.
most of the time these type of women flirt with you and make it seem there is a window of chance just so you can boast their ego, don't do it, it always ends badly
the first the girl had a bf, and she was cheating on him with me, a year or two down the line me and her dated for a few months, we broke up and she ended up with another guy and they got married
second time me and this chick was going out on dates, I was buying her things to win her affection, this chick was the perfect 10, I tried everything in my might to make her leave her bf, it never happened, we ended up fighting I called her a b*tch and we never talked again
it is a waste of time doing this bro, take it from me and find another girl who is single.
most of the time these type of women flirt with you and make it seem there is a window of chance just so you can boast their ego, don't do it, it always ends badly
Uncharted
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Everyone here is on the right path. The point is not to REPLACE her boyfriend, you just want to fvck her, right?
If she's thinking about it that means she's already thought about her next guy (ie you). Just lay it on strong and go for it.
If she's thinking about it that means she's already thought about her next guy (ie you). Just lay it on strong and go for it.
It won't happen. "I don't have the courage to break up with him" = a polite rejection. If she really didn't like him anymore (ie, was a boring beta herb) she'd have no problem kicking him to the curb and sleeping good that night. Nobody dates for 5 years and "suddenly" realizes the spark isn't there anymore
Also, if you've known this girl for over 2 weeks, hit yourself in the head and keep it moving. She will fvck a stranger before she fvcks a friend (if you've been platonic with her for more than 2 weeks you are in friend category)
Also, if you've known this girl for over 2 weeks, hit yourself in the head and keep it moving. She will fvck a stranger before she fvcks a friend (if you've been platonic with her for more than 2 weeks you are in friend category)
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yyc12
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Find........another..........girl!! Why go through this? What makes her so much more special than the other women out there??
Harvey_Poon
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What some guys will go through just to get a girlfriend.
Unless you are getting some poon from this girl, then there is no need for you to be hanging around her letting her pull your string.
If you are getting some, then there is no need to be in a relationship with her. You are getting what you want. Free sex. That should be your goal. Let the boyfriend put up with her drama and pay her way. You just get the benefits for free.
If you are getting nothing out of it except for her sob story, then you need to look elsewhere because this chick is just stringing you along.
If she wanted to sleep with you.... she would.....whether she has a boyfriend or not.
If she wanted to dump the boyfriend to be with you.....she would....she wouldn't stay with him.
You can't make her do anything.....it is what she wants.....and she wants to stay with the boyfriend because she is not with you.
Women will do anything to break up with men that they don't want to be with to be with another guy. She hasn't done that for you or showed you that she would. That means that she won't. So don't be strung along by her.
She has you as a possible back up plan just in case she breaks up and probably has another guy or two on the string as well.
Don't wait for a chick to make decisions if she wants to be with you or not...If she wanted to be with you.... she would be in your arms...not his. What does that tell you?
The verge means nothing until she actually breaks up with him herself.
Women will always break up with men they don't want to be with. She is giving you an excuse because she doesn't plan on breaking up with him.
If there is "no feeling there" she would be gone and not stay on. Another excuse by her. If she wanted to leave him she would. If she really wanted to be with you, she would.
You don't" "push" her to do anything. If she wanted to get rid of the guy she will do it on her own. You telling her or trying to do things to make her won't help you at all. If she is not with you, then she probably won't be with you.
Hang out with single girls and don't invest any time or energy in this chick until she gets rid of the guy because you could be strung along for a long time and then you will have wasted a lot of time.
Harvey Poon
Unless you are getting some poon from this girl, then there is no need for you to be hanging around her letting her pull your string.
If you are getting some, then there is no need to be in a relationship with her. You are getting what you want. Free sex. That should be your goal. Let the boyfriend put up with her drama and pay her way. You just get the benefits for free.
If you are getting nothing out of it except for her sob story, then you need to look elsewhere because this chick is just stringing you along.
If she wanted to sleep with you.... she would.....whether she has a boyfriend or not.
If she wanted to dump the boyfriend to be with you.....she would....she wouldn't stay with him.
You can't make her do anything.....it is what she wants.....and she wants to stay with the boyfriend because she is not with you.
Women will do anything to break up with men that they don't want to be with to be with another guy. She hasn't done that for you or showed you that she would. That means that she won't. So don't be strung along by her.
She has you as a possible back up plan just in case she breaks up and probably has another guy or two on the string as well.
Don't wait for a chick to make decisions if she wants to be with you or not...If she wanted to be with you.... she would be in your arms...not his. What does that tell you?
chaos86 said:
The verge means nothing until she actually breaks up with him herself.
chaos86 said:
Women will always break up with men they don't want to be with. She is giving you an excuse because she doesn't plan on breaking up with him.
chaos86 said:
If there is "no feeling there" she would be gone and not stay on. Another excuse by her. If she wanted to leave him she would. If she really wanted to be with you, she would.
chaos86 said:
You don't" "push" her to do anything. If she wanted to get rid of the guy she will do it on her own. You telling her or trying to do things to make her won't help you at all. If she is not with you, then she probably won't be with you.
Hang out with single girls and don't invest any time or energy in this chick until she gets rid of the guy because you could be strung along for a long time and then you will have wasted a lot of time.
Harvey Poon