"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to proceed with this flake?

digital_sunrise

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So this HB 7 already flaked on me once, she apologized and asked if we could hangout another time, I said "you'll owe me but I'm sure we can work something out" to which she replied "lol ok thanks"

We're in the same class, fast forward a few weeks and its the final exam. I finish the test early and wait outside for my buddy, she comes out after me, she approaches, and we start talking. I ask her what she's doing over break and she tells me shes going out of state to visit her dad and she then says we should hangout before she leaves this weekend. I say sure, I'll text you. Then she heads out.

I text her after a day for a meetup:

Me: Hey you, I'm hoping we can find some time to meet up before you leave. I have a final late Friday afternoon so I'm free either tomorrow or Thursday, are you around then?

Her: Hey I'm free tomorrow evening if you wanna hang out

Me: I can't after 5, why dont we meet up some time during the day either today or tomorrow for a few hours and I'll take you out and we can do something fun?

Her: I have to give my friend a ride to the airport. If I come back soon we can hang out tomorrow is that okay with you?

Me: Yeah sure, sounds good.

Next day comes along, I'm at school studying with friends. It's like 2:00...

Me: I'm in the cafeteria, just come meet me there when you get back and we can head out!




I never got a response or anything on that. I hate flakes but there's hardly any cute girls at my community college that aren't dumb as **** and she's actually someone I can have a decent conversation with.

So thoughts on pursuit or go ghost?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Steve-O

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digital_sunrise said:
Me: Hey you, I'm hoping we can find some time to meet up before you leave. I have a final late Friday afternoon so I'm free either tomorrow or Thursday, are you around then?

Her: Hey I'm free tomorrow evening if you wanna hang out

Me: I can't after 5, why dont we meet up some time during the day either today or tomorrow for a few hours and I'll take you out and we can do something fun?

Her: I have to give my friend a ride to the airport. If I come back soon we can hang out tomorrow is that okay with you?

Me: Yeah sure, sounds good.

Next day comes along, I'm at school studying with friends. It's like 2:00...

Me: I'm in the cafeteria, just come meet me there when you get back and we can head out!

I never got a response or anything on that. I hate flakes but there's hardly any cute girls at my community college that aren't dumb as **** and she's actually someone I can have a decent conversation with.

So thoughts on pursuit or go ghost?
Flakes are the absolute worst kind. I once had a date with a girl and she lived an hour away. I was going to pick her up and was halfway there when she called that she can't make it because she has to go to the hospital. How convenient. >_>

I did see one problem with your text though. The part I highlighted in bold is the problem. When setting up a date with a girl. Try to make CONCRETE plans. An exact activity, date, time and place. It makes it a bit harder to flake. Your plans sounded too vague and "hanging out" is vague as well.

I say go ghost. She's not worth your time and highly inconsiderate and rude of her not to even reply to your text, acknowledge your existence or at the very least postpone again. Even if she postponed, I would still say go ghost.
 

thatfeel

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You're taking this way too seriously, first of all. Who gives a sh!t if she's dumb or smart? Your primary goal is to fvck first, relationship later. It's not up to you to determine if she's worth having a relationship with or not at all. You leave it to her, in due time, to prove to you that she's WORTH having one with. "Decent conversation" is something a beta orbiter would covet and will appropriately be "rewarded" with by hesitating to escalate. Modern women are simply incapable of having decent conversations.
 

skinnyguy

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This chick has a really low interest level. Forget her.
 

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DROP HER ASS FIND A INTERESTED CHICK

They are out there just spin plates man, I went out tonight kiss closed/ number closed like 5 broads, just try and try and try, action man, forget the unintersted ones, believe me there are better girls out there just invest in new ones and forget the old ones. I was like you man but when you start cold approaching randomly you'll realize that hot interested girls are anywhere. You just have to approach them and close the deal! If she gives you a hard time, rip ripp ripp her number and approach another one, you'll forget about her and maybe she'll text you in a couple of weeks coz you didnt chase her anymore. Big chance that your in a bigger better deal and you don't give a f*ck anymore.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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papawapa

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Mistake on was pushing to meet up with her before she left. Way too needy bro.

Mistake two was if the date and time she offered up didnt work you should have said 'sorry, im busy tomorrow night. Ill hit you up when I am free.' Dont counter offer like you did.
 

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Your princess is in another castle! Drop her ass and move on! She already did!

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 
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