"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How To Overcome Embrassment (Advise to everyone)

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Today I suffered a pretty embarrassing moment after lunch. My friends have a habit of dunking on whoever walks under the door.(lol. I know were silly) Today one of them dunked on me. I ran to get them back. I jumped to dunk on him from the front and he pushed me in mid-air. I flew back started back pedaling 6 feet back until I fell on my butt in front of a decent number of ppl and I run after him. (Note that this guy is about 225-240 pounds and I'm 176 pounds)

I felt so embarrassed (but I played it off with a laugh) at first because I fell on my butt in front of 15-20 but then I remembered that sometimes you have to learn how to laugh at yourself. Rather than run and hide after a public slip-up, laugh at yourself. Hence, others are less likely to remember the event. On the other hand, they'll remember a negative reaction

For all those who easily embrassed. Work on your insecurities. Insecure people are easily embarrassed. Nobody is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes.

Also you can just add it to your repertoire of stories where the joke was on you.

Enjoy the laughter of the crowds from and the sense of solidarity they have with me as a fellow human who understands what they are going through in life.

Remember that we all will go through embrassing moments in HS, College, and in life in general but remember that you shouldn't take things too seriously because if you laugh at yourself every now and then. By doing this your more likely to get over it quickly. And girls will notice that your a fun person and that you don't take things too seriously.

"A True Winner isn't someone who always win, they just happen to act like they always do" - Unknown:rockon:
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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good advice, kinda already knew though. i turn into brass occasionally as well (sorry, i just like to rag on people who cant spell haha embarrassment)
yeah i always just laugh it off as well. so far ive fallen off my bike countless times in heavily populated places (a curb, attempting to hop a crevice, being pushed playfully by a friend, attempting to hop a parking block thing, going from grass>sidewalk, being a dumbass, to name a few). i always laugh it off, and almost always for the next few days i get comments like 'hey youre the guy who fell into the mud/face/etc!' or something like that haha. so its actually a good thing sometimes

oh yeah btw, whats a dunk?
 
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