Jack Wealthy
Master Don Juan
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Don't be creepy. It's that freakin' simple.
Elaborating, stop being a ***** little *****. No one cares about your rep except you, everyone is to busy caring about their own. The exception is if you have a severe rep, like mega-cool or creepy rapist. If you want to avoid being a creepy rapist and still get laid, you have to risk creepy.
You have to risk creepy.
No matter how good your game is, every 1000 or so girls one will think you're a freak. This is because sometimes people are incompatible. This is something you can't pre-judge, you actually have to talk to a girl to find out if she finds you creepy. Posting here isn't going to change her mind about that or even change the odds. The only thing that will even let the odds play out is talking to girls.
You have to talk to girls.
That is the very essence of game. Actually being able to talk to girls. If you went up and talked to enough girls, you'd get laid. But even then, just talking normally, some of those girls would think you're a creep. "Why is this guy talking to me?" "Oh jeez this guy is a creep." "Why not her, or her?" All possible things that can run through a girls mind the first time you talk to her. But honestly, how often would that occur if you just relax and talk normally? It would be an anomaly.
More likely, the girl will be super into you from the get go. But just talking normally isn't the best way to guarantee this. Talking sexually is.
The best chance of forming a connection with a girl comes from being sexual.
Girls are sexual creatures to a degree you can only dream of. If air stopped existing, girls would survive on sex alone. You have no better hope of sleeping with a girl than being sexual with her. You have no better hope of having a girl comfortable with you than being sexual with her. Honestly, do you know a cool guy who isn't sexual? Not some guy who owns at Halo or Skyrim, I mean a legit actual cool dude. Someone popular, the top people at your school. Because I'm one of those guys and honestly, I talk about sex/talk sexually at least half the time, girl or guy, gay or straight.
Which brings me to my final point.
Sincerity trumps all.
You just have to accept that you WILL get rejected no matter what you do. In fact, embrace that, rejection is beautiful and infinitely better than regret. You also have to accept that unless you are your true self, the you YOU want you to be, then you will never be sure the people you interact with actually like you. No matter what, you will get rejected and accepted, so why not let your real personality be the one to get accepted?
Risk creepy, it is only a label. Whether people call apple apple, pomme, apfel or Shiny Ass Red Fruit, it's still a freaking apple. It doesn't change inside when people call it different things and neither do you. Be the true sexual you. Screw everyone else.
The only two ways to be creepy, excepting the chaos percent you will never have control over, are hardcore escalation with no fun on your part or thinking yourself that you are creepy. You have full control over both of those and stop being creepy.
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Special thanks to Contempt for helping me polish this article.
Elaborating, stop being a ***** little *****. No one cares about your rep except you, everyone is to busy caring about their own. The exception is if you have a severe rep, like mega-cool or creepy rapist. If you want to avoid being a creepy rapist and still get laid, you have to risk creepy.
You have to risk creepy.
No matter how good your game is, every 1000 or so girls one will think you're a freak. This is because sometimes people are incompatible. This is something you can't pre-judge, you actually have to talk to a girl to find out if she finds you creepy. Posting here isn't going to change her mind about that or even change the odds. The only thing that will even let the odds play out is talking to girls.
You have to talk to girls.
That is the very essence of game. Actually being able to talk to girls. If you went up and talked to enough girls, you'd get laid. But even then, just talking normally, some of those girls would think you're a creep. "Why is this guy talking to me?" "Oh jeez this guy is a creep." "Why not her, or her?" All possible things that can run through a girls mind the first time you talk to her. But honestly, how often would that occur if you just relax and talk normally? It would be an anomaly.
More likely, the girl will be super into you from the get go. But just talking normally isn't the best way to guarantee this. Talking sexually is.
The best chance of forming a connection with a girl comes from being sexual.
Girls are sexual creatures to a degree you can only dream of. If air stopped existing, girls would survive on sex alone. You have no better hope of sleeping with a girl than being sexual with her. You have no better hope of having a girl comfortable with you than being sexual with her. Honestly, do you know a cool guy who isn't sexual? Not some guy who owns at Halo or Skyrim, I mean a legit actual cool dude. Someone popular, the top people at your school. Because I'm one of those guys and honestly, I talk about sex/talk sexually at least half the time, girl or guy, gay or straight.
Which brings me to my final point.
Sincerity trumps all.
You just have to accept that you WILL get rejected no matter what you do. In fact, embrace that, rejection is beautiful and infinitely better than regret. You also have to accept that unless you are your true self, the you YOU want you to be, then you will never be sure the people you interact with actually like you. No matter what, you will get rejected and accepted, so why not let your real personality be the one to get accepted?
Risk creepy, it is only a label. Whether people call apple apple, pomme, apfel or Shiny Ass Red Fruit, it's still a freaking apple. It doesn't change inside when people call it different things and neither do you. Be the true sexual you. Screw everyone else.
The only two ways to be creepy, excepting the chaos percent you will never have control over, are hardcore escalation with no fun on your part or thinking yourself that you are creepy. You have full control over both of those and stop being creepy.
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Special thanks to Contempt for helping me polish this article.
