Poonani Maker
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to Navigate the First Date
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Half crap, half common sense.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Poonani Maker, I'd be careful about trusting MSN (and any other mainstream media) for dating advise...at least until sosuave.com takes everything over.
Poonani Maker
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That's true. I've notice their advice gettin more and more don juanish, while still hanging on to that 50% old school yappering. It's almost always a woman writing that stuff. Or a woman posing as a man.WaRpEd said: