"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to message a cute girl over Facebook for the first time that you don't know?

Jespin

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So I have a couple of hot girls as friends on my Facebook and I would like to start talking to them. Any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sylvester the cat

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if they're into you, it doesn't really matter what you say. a hello or something ****y funny to them will get a good response.

if they're not into, it doesn't really matter what you say. a hello or something ****y funny will make you come across as either a creep or a tryhard.

Just make sure you fix a meet within the first few messages as the law of diminishing returns applies. Plus it's a good test to see if they're into you.
 
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compleks

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How/Why are you facebook friends with girls you don't know in the first place...?
 
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