DEEZEDBRAH
Master Don Juan
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True but smv craters pretty fast as with fertility. Women have a shorter shelf life.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How to meet women?
- Thread starter twoface262
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
kbbroiler1971
Don Juan
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I think the problem is in the question. You focusing on meeting them and you’re looking to meet them. So you are prevalidating them before meeting them. Capesh? You mentioned you play guitar and that a good way to meet them. You want to get into the mindset that you don’t ask questions on how to meet women and focus on you. The movie the field of dreams if you build it they will come! It’s the same for women.