"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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phoneproblems

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I've had several dates that went smoothly. The women were interesting, but I didn't feel anything.

After a few hours they end with her saying, "I had a good time, we should do this again, you have my #".

Q. How do I keep them on as female friends, but not lead them on that I'm interested?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I suppose you ensure that whenever you meet them it is a non-dating atmosphere. No candlelit dinners, snuggly DVD nights are obviously out.

You can invite them to group events such as parties. But if you started it off as a prospective GF search, then you might have difficulties.
 
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Alright, good idea. So if I'm going out with a friend I'll invite her along. Basically, nothing one on one. Thanks
 
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