How to keep the partying, active social life, and random hookups going after college.

[Good Gao]

As I near my 30s, I realize that I do not want to grow up at all. The idea of an LTR, marriage, kids, and all of that does not appeal to me. What I want out of life are the wild parties (nice themes to them too), active social life with cool people (people not married or having kids), and random hookups with some girls that have low morals. I don't want Ms. Right, I'll do with Ms. Right Now for the rest of my life.

In college, all of this was a walk away and just doing something like being in a fraternity was enough to get you all of that.

How do you get all of this after college?

 

[blind_one]

I hope I can chime in on that a little bit.

It all depends on how far you want to take it of course.

What you have to do is expand your social circle, in every direction possible, acquaint yourself with friends of friends, invite them to parties/social gatherings, be genuinely interested in other people ask them questions about them ''game'' them if you will.
The move to another person, try to discover something about them. Be fun about it. Some people will click with you some are not worth it. Your circle will grow exponentially. If you are at square 0, try something like ballroom/salsa dancing to start off or meet friends of your co-workers on their parties. I underlined that because I try to keep my work colleagues strictly business, but that depends on what kind of work you do.

Birthday parties, and lots of them. Sometimes it happends that I visit at least two each weekend sometimes going from one to the other and then to a club with a bunch of people. Only thing stopping you is your imagination.

Its not easy to find the right people to party hard with but like everything, it takes dedication to find these people.

Be fun, and interested in other people, take their contact info and expand.

 

[TheSplat]

Another thing you can start doing is becoming friends with bartenders, bouncers, club owners, etc.

You can keep the partying up at the hottest nightclubs in town (for cheap) if you know the right people.

 

[skinnyguy]

If that's what you care about you will end up depressed