"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to keep her interested until we meet again

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I met this amazing Argentinian girl during my vacation last week. I just went upto her and started chatting, it went really smooth. I couldn't believe myself, for a moment thought she was out of my league. But she was totally into me, giving away all the signs. She almost kissed me at one point. But may be I'm over thinking, it's just her nature. Anyway..

So after our meeting that day, we exchanged numbers and decided to meet again however couldn't. Now I'm back home in the US, and she is going back to Argentina this week. Great news is, i'm traveling to Argentina next month for work for over 5 weeks. She reached out to me and i told her that, she was happy and said will definitely hang with me when i'm there.
I really really like this girl, not sure how she feels but i don't want to miss out on this opportunity. My work travel plane all of sudden is a positive sign that things may work out between us.

Please give me your advice experts, so i convert this into a relationship or atleast get to know her and she gets to know me.

how should i maintain the same level of attraction and keep her engaged until we meet, almost a month from now.

Thanks in advance!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds like you placed a lot of value on this girl just from the way you've wrote about her. Personally, I wouldnt be bothered keeping her attracted for 5 weeks. But thats just me. You could keep her engaged every day through snapchat, fb with funny pictures and jokes. I would leave it until a week before you're about to got there, and slowly get back in the attention radar. Don't over think it.
 
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I was in a similar situation, but not with a girl from another country. Rather it was a different state and it was a month away. I just made sure I did a funny text one day a week and on sunday evenings would call her and chatted about our weeks.

I think the key is to keep the conversation fun and humorous. Stay away from the sappy, lovey dovey stuff. This SHOULD keep her interest level high and keep her thinking of you. Good Luck.
 
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Dear All,
Hands up those who think Personal 02 is a troll?
 
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Scaramouche said:
Dear All,
Hands up those who think Personal 02 is a troll?
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@Scaramouche - what makes you think like that?
I'm looking for serious advice here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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