Black_Italian
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I couldnt say but see your 25 im 19 im sure you had a diffrent view at my age.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to keep faithful in a LTR??
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
well.......
Laterz....
Not wierd, just different (in a good way) ... But sadly 99% of the world arent like you, hence you being different. We are all humans, and a lot of us will give in to temptation. Sad, but true.... Humans! pffffft!
Laterz....
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
26 lol i am 26 !
muslim chick problem
AVOID HER
ie. YOU yes YOu are your own worst enemy in life
left me give you an example
ME i plan to rob a shop. i need the money. i am conflicted.
i know it's wrong. i know what happens when i cross that line again BUT i need that money.
what do i do ?
i know if i am there at the right time i am so ****ing straight forward i will just do it
so i make sure i am so far away or without transport so it becomes impossible
thats not the best example off the top of my head but you get the idea
muslim chick : i come to sydney on thursday when can we meet up ?
you : i have to go to my uncles wednesday. flying up to brisbane for his wedding will be there 1 week. CANT SEE YOU SORRY. but maybe next time ok ?
tell her your busy whatever problem solved.
now for your gf
if you happy with her hold on to her
HAMMER TIME
Black_Italian
The issue is should i commit because i found and amazing rare girl?
YES ! commit !
h0es are a dime a dozen
real quality women are RARE
i will trade you 20 crack h0s for your gf any time you ready
we live in a world where the h0 to potential wife ratio is getting worse
by the time you are 26 i assure you it will be 10 times worse than it is now
most people on this forum are looking for what you have
a decent women who is worthy of a mans respect
don't chase after fools gold ( many h0es ) at the end of the day you will be broke
these people talking about being able to remember their many h0es and saying thats good
PFT !
i have had many women. many beautiful women. and i tell you the ones i remember
THE GREAT LOVE STORIES !
yes the ones i dated and were wife material but in my ignorance i cast them aside to pursue my fleshly lusts
foolish enough to think i would find plenty more
but the world is changing and women are changing
the wh0re mindset is being programmed into them at a higher rate
i hope Paris Hilton gets hit by a bus the wh0re !
i hope you make the right choice my fellow Don Juan. All the best.
Lost In Translation
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muslim chick problem
AVOID HER
ie. YOU yes YOu are your own worst enemy in life
left me give you an example
ME i plan to rob a shop. i need the money. i am conflicted.
i know it's wrong. i know what happens when i cross that line again BUT i need that money.
what do i do ?
i know if i am there at the right time i am so ****ing straight forward i will just do it
so i make sure i am so far away or without transport so it becomes impossible
thats not the best example off the top of my head but you get the idea
muslim chick : i come to sydney on thursday when can we meet up ?
you : i have to go to my uncles wednesday. flying up to brisbane for his wedding will be there 1 week. CANT SEE YOU SORRY. but maybe next time ok ?
tell her your busy whatever problem solved.
now for your gf
if you happy with her hold on to her
HAMMER TIME
Black_Italian
The issue is should i commit because i found and amazing rare girl?
YES ! commit !
h0es are a dime a dozen
real quality women are RARE
i will trade you 20 crack h0s for your gf any time you ready
we live in a world where the h0 to potential wife ratio is getting worse
by the time you are 26 i assure you it will be 10 times worse than it is now
most people on this forum are looking for what you have
a decent women who is worthy of a mans respect
don't chase after fools gold ( many h0es ) at the end of the day you will be broke
these people talking about being able to remember their many h0es and saying thats good
PFT !
i have had many women. many beautiful women. and i tell you the ones i remember
THE GREAT LOVE STORIES !
yes the ones i dated and were wife material but in my ignorance i cast them aside to pursue my fleshly lusts
foolish enough to think i would find plenty more
but the world is changing and women are changing
the wh0re mindset is being programmed into them at a higher rate
i hope Paris Hilton gets hit by a bus the wh0re !
i hope you make the right choice my fellow Don Juan. All the best.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Black_Italian
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Lucky you came on that’s what I wanted "someone with a little more life experience".
I think you are right I am never easily swayed but what you said is logical and you have been there done that so I will take your advice and stay with my girl.
Its not like I haven’t had my share of hoes anyway.
Thanks Lost In Translation
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I think you are right I am never easily swayed but what you said is logical and you have been there done that so I will take your advice and stay with my girl.
Its not like I haven’t had my share of hoes anyway.
Thanks Lost In Translation
Ninja Out
Aren't you the same guy who JUST asked this girl to be exclusive a couple of days ago? Isn't she the girl who you hung out with as a friend who wanted more with you all along? Sorry dude, but if you break up with her after only a couple of days you are going to come off as being lame, flaky, indecisive and as not having your act together. Not only will you lose out on ever being with her in the future, but you will lose the friendship as well. And for what? A girl you don't even think is as good as the one you've got? And you're ready to break up with the new g/f just so you can see if this other girl will have sex with you? Sorry, but that's just plain dumb.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Black_Italian
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It was actualy because i wasnt ready to commit not just because of the muslim girl. I wanted to play the field for a little while longer. Muslim girl is an example.
I changed my mind anyway
Ninja Out
I changed my mind anyway
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NewMan
Master Don Juan
You are 19 yrs old.
The question you should be asking yourself, is why are you in a relationship in the first place.
At 19 - you have a lot of changing to do and life to live.
chances are this will not last especially at such a young age - so are you going to throw away opportunities? for what? regrets later in life?
The question should be - are you willing to forsake all other women for your current girl? FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?
if the answer to that is no, then what are you doing?
there is no guarantee that this other chick will put out anyways. So why not hang out with her - and just have fun.
Men in commited relationships at a young age (earlier than 25) are playing the wrong game....
The question you should be asking yourself, is why are you in a relationship in the first place.
At 19 - you have a lot of changing to do and life to live.
chances are this will not last especially at such a young age - so are you going to throw away opportunities? for what? regrets later in life?
The question should be - are you willing to forsake all other women for your current girl? FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?
if the answer to that is no, then what are you doing?
there is no guarantee that this other chick will put out anyways. So why not hang out with her - and just have fun.
Men in commited relationships at a young age (earlier than 25) are playing the wrong game....