"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to initiate physical contact @ work?

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DaftTHUNK said:
I'll probably play it safe until we can get together outside of work...no use in potentially screwing things up since I'm confident I can seal the deal within another week's time. Thanks fellas.
By the way...if both of you were in a COMMITTED relationship (and working in different companies)...especially when both are dating for a while...I personally don't see anything wrong with what Iqqi gave as advice. Especially if you are in a position to introduce her as your girlfriend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the corporate world is more gossipy than a f*cking day time soap opera.

you start kissing someone at work and people start to talk. if they don't know the story they will make up a story just for the fun of it.

its the quickest way to basically sabotage your reputation.

people will stop taking you seriously at meetings. people will talk about you behind your back. etc.

when you go to work you should always keep your game face on - your WORK game face.
 

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joekerr31 said:
the corporate world is more gossipy than a f*cking day time soap opera.

you start kissing someone at work and people start to talk. if they don't know the story they will make up a story just for the fun of it.

its the quickest way to basically sabotage your reputation.

people will stop taking you seriously at meetings. people will talk about you behind your back. etc.

when you go to work you should always keep your game face on - your WORK game face.
I totally agree with you...as I have been in the receiving end of "gossiping". Not a GREAT place to be. Especially when the gossiping was related to women and I.
 
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