"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sportf190

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girls say i have no game im 18 and there lik 16/17 what exactly do they mean by game? i think it means putting moves on / talking to other girls..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sportf190 said:
girls say i have no game im 18 and there lik 16/17 what exactly do they mean by game? i think it means putting moves on / talking to other girls..
You should drop "game" from your thinking. It's immature and suggests girls need to be "gamed" (ie. they are special). So just act normal and stop trying to get with them. They'll stop using the "game" yardstick against you, and start thinking of you as a genuine cool guy.
 
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