How to improve “texting game?”

[member160971]

I’ve been wondering about this because I think I fall short in this area. I don’t have much social anxiety and feel like I’m decent with in person conversation. But obviously some text game is often needed to seal the deal if you’re not able to get whoever you’re interested in back to your place the same day. I’m not sure precisely what it is I’m doing wrong, but clearly there’s something because things always seem to fizzle out through text. I’m not talking about texting dynamics when you’re in a relationship with someone, just what you exchange leading up to a casual encounter.

How exactly are you supposed to appear charismatic, etc, though text? I can’t seem to put my finger on how to play this.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Mhhhh... here are some basics that worked for me, I will copy paste from a previous thread. Hope it helps:

I would invite them to a restaurant I was actually craving for, or to watch the latest blockbuster I actually wanted to see. I believe that being focus on enojying the actual date would give off the abundance mindset instead of neediness or scarcity mindset and girls would somehow sense it and they loved it.

Texting was nothing special. No PUA tricks.

Text One: "Hey girl. How´s ur weekend going?" When matching during weekend. If matching Monday/Tuesday it was "Hey girl. How was your weekend?". If matching Wednesday/Thursday "Hey girl. Any cool plans for the upcoming weekend?"
Her: Bla bla bla

Next text: "Cool. What do you enjoy doing with your free time?"
Her: bla bla bla

If we have suff in common:

"Looks like we have a lot in common. Im craving my favorite sushi place, wanna meet 5:30ish pm next saturday?" Maybe Im implying that since we have stuff in common I wanna get to know her better.

If we dont have that much in common:

"I live in X city by Y mall. Anything interesting near your house?"
Her: Bla bla bla
"My favorite Burger place is very close to your house. Wanna meet Next saturday evening and grab a bite?"


If there was a new movie I actually wanted to see.
"I wanna watch the new Marvel movie. Lets go on day 1 to avoid spoilers. My favorite movie place has a show at 6pm"

No long texts. No double texting. No over-talking or over-sharing. STFU, Keep it simple and more or less mirror her response time.