apvcovenman_79
Don Juan
How do you handle the cellphone? ....availability is anti-challenge....can someone tell what and how you do this with the cellphone ?..... do NOT talk to her every day BUT if you have a cellphone? H O W ?
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How To Handle The Cellphone
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I think I understand your problem. You need to hide under the guise of phone etiquette. If you are having a nice meal with your family or friends, turn it to silent/vibrate mode. If you are talking with a good friend, turn it to silent.
If you don't feel like talking, turn it off.
A cell phone is a tool that helps YOU reach someone, not necessarily the other way around.
You can also claim to misplace it from time to time, explaining why you didn't call back. You may also want to consider not having voice mail, forcing the poor girl to call you back, over and over.
If you don't feel like talking, turn it off.
A cell phone is a tool that helps YOU reach someone, not necessarily the other way around.
You can also claim to misplace it from time to time, explaining why you didn't call back. You may also want to consider not having voice mail, forcing the poor girl to call you back, over and over.
apvcovenman_79
Don Juan
suggestions
any more suggestions ??? ....does nobody know how to handle it ? does everybody here pick up the cellphone every time the girl calls ?
any more suggestions ??? ....does nobody know how to handle it ? does everybody here pick up the cellphone every time the girl calls ?
TTAG
Don Juan
Big Pappy knows his stuff.
end of discussion.
end of discussion.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
apvcovenman_79
Don Juan
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very good point ...
any more suggestions ???'
very good point ...
any more suggestions ???'
Hey, here's another suggestion: Don't own a cell phone. Or, don't give out your cell number to girls.
If they ask for it, tell them that you just got it and haven't signed the contract yet because you're not sure if you'll actually need one. So, you went with prepaid, and your minutes are precious few.
Thanks TTAG.
If they ask for it, tell them that you just got it and haven't signed the contract yet because you're not sure if you'll actually need one. So, you went with prepaid, and your minutes are precious few.
Thanks TTAG.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
I only have my cell phone opn when I want people to contact me.
I NEVER give my home phone number to girls unless I want to start a relationship with them - my friends get my home phone number.
So basically, if my friends want to contact me they will try my cell and then home.
Girls I know will try my cell - they can leave a message if I don't pick up.
If sounds like your being controlled by these women.
Why do you HAVE to pick up?
If they give you a hard time tell them to Fvck it. Tell them your busy.
But don't be a slave to these women who call and expect you to pick up.
At the start of the relationship you must control the women - if you pick up everytime they call, then they will expect that going forward. but if you start the relationship by not answering every call you will train them from the get go - and they will then not expect this every time.
I NEVER give my home phone number to girls unless I want to start a relationship with them - my friends get my home phone number.
So basically, if my friends want to contact me they will try my cell and then home.
Girls I know will try my cell - they can leave a message if I don't pick up.
If sounds like your being controlled by these women.
Why do you HAVE to pick up?
If they give you a hard time tell them to Fvck it. Tell them your busy.
But don't be a slave to these women who call and expect you to pick up.
At the start of the relationship you must control the women - if you pick up everytime they call, then they will expect that going forward. but if you start the relationship by not answering every call you will train them from the get go - and they will then not expect this every time.
myfriendblu
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Re: suggestions
Most new cell phones have caller i.d., and a cool feature called the "ignore" button. So the number of who is calling you shows up, and when you don't wanna talk to whomever is calling, be it your boss or some chik, just hit the ignore button and it sends them right to voice mail.
Again, I love the cell phone. Its an absolute must in 2003. Trying to play the field without one is like not owning a car.
Hey
Most new cell phones have caller i.d., and a cool feature called the "ignore" button. So the number of who is calling you shows up, and when you don't wanna talk to whomever is calling, be it your boss or some chik, just hit the ignore button and it sends them right to voice mail.
Again, I love the cell phone. Its an absolute must in 2003. Trying to play the field without one is like not owning a car.
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THA REALNESS
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Yeah you pick up the phone when they call you!! man.
They're on your cack when they call and e-mail nonstop.
LOL,do as you please ,don't let this sh1t eat your mind.
They're on your cack when they call and e-mail nonstop.
LOL,do as you please ,don't let this sh1t eat your mind.
the pain
Don Juan
hey guys so what happen if i m in the relationship and i answered every time and actualy i called most of the times she made a missed call cause thats her way.........
so what shouldi do or how should i turn it on the other side i mean she want me and im busy by the way i cant turn my phone off cause people call me all the time.............so?
so what shouldi do or how should i turn it on the other side i mean she want me and im busy by the way i cant turn my phone off cause people call me all the time.............so?
diplomatic_lies
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You pick up the phone, make machine gun noises, and scream "Over the hill! Move move move!" then tell her you're a bit busy killing El Presidente.
Or alternatively just pick up the phone and tell her you're busy.
Or alternatively just pick up the phone and tell her you're busy.
Lone_raider
Senior Don Juan
You see, the phone is your B*tch of sorts. You don't need to answer it, it's there for your convenience. If a girl calls and you don't want to talk, hit reject and let her leave a voice mail. Who cares? She won't die if she doesn't talk to you. I even reject calls from friends sometimes because I don't want to do anything, or I'm doing something with someone else. Or I'll just turn the phone off if I don't want to be bothered.
You control the phone, it doesn't control you! lol
You control the phone, it doesn't control you! lol