How to handle having a nice paying "nerdy" job and game.

[anhphuong]

For the Accountants, Software Engineers and dudes in corporate jobs.

It seems like the dudes who are slaying and getting hot girls are DJs, bartenders and guys in nightlife.

Even if you do have game and are good looking, it seems like you are stuck with LTRs at best and then going out to game like any other guy. You don't really get an "in" with hot girls like a bartender or DJ does, you have to pretty much rely on dumb luck and your social circle sucks as well. It is rare that you hear of some guy working any job in technology or white collar world being the one who is deep inside of hot girls and partying with hot girls.

I am one of these guys, pretty good salary, get a lot of matches on dating apps but I feel so left out of the lifestyle of partying and fun that hot girls gravitate to. Now I am wondering how guys who are in this situation, have game, and even have good looks can go about maxing out their potential with women because it seems like a well above average salary is a setback when it comes to game compared to a bartender or what a DJ makes.

 

[evan12]

I dont think you are missing a lot by not going to night clubs . girls there pick the best of best so it is actually depressing unless you are really good looking and fun to be around .
however as some one have day job , not a shift based job , you own all the evening and night time for you , so you can go to clubs as nights and weekends , or have a part time weekend job as these locations .
If you consider yourself established, good looking man , then go register in E-Harmony , it is not free but worth the money , the reason it work better for men is that women and men can only message people who the system suggest for them , so the Darwinian law doesn't work pretty well there as it is on POF.

 

[MatureDJ]

Stay at your job and SAVE, SAVE, SAVE until you have enough to retire (I'd say a nest egg of $500K should do it), and then retire and go live abroad, and chase women there.

BTW, those "hot girls" are all very perishable, and low-quality to begin with. If you really want them, just wait until they become single mommies, and you can enjoy nailing them between the stretch marks.

 

[logicallefty]

My situation as it relates to the topic is somewhat unique. I get the best of both worlds; I work both in IT at a very large organization with thousands of people and I also work as a cop for a city of about 15000 people. So I have both the nerdy salary gig and the manly position of power gig. When I go out with new women for the first time and I talk to them and explain both of my jobs I constantly get called “an interesting guy” and “mysterious” right to my face. I’ve been told stuff like “I’m normally really good at reading people but I can’t quite figure you out”. And they can’t. I make sure that they don’t LOL