How to handle having a nice paying "nerdy" job and game.

[drakeisfire]

For the Accountants, Software Engineers and dudes in corporate jobs.

It seems like the dudes who are slaying and getting hot girls are DJs, bartenders and guys in nightlife.

Even if you do have game and are good looking, it seems like you are stuck with LTRs at best and then going out to game like any other guy. You don't really get an "in" with hot girls like a bartender or DJ does, you have to pretty much rely on dumb luck and your social circle sucks as well. It is rare that you hear of some guy working any job in technology or white collar world being the one who is deep inside of hot girls and partying with hot girls.

I am one of these guys, pretty good salary, get a lot of matches on dating apps but I feel so left out of the lifestyle of partying and fun that hot girls gravitate to. Now I am wondering how guys who are in this situation, have game, and even have good looks can go about maxing out their potential with women because it seems like a well above average salary is a setback when it comes to game compared to a bartender or what a DJ makes.

 

[Spaz]

A man's smv is not equal to a women's. A man is rated based on his ambition, his current lifestyle, his integrity, his passions, his manliness and being good looking is just a bonus. While a women's smv is her youthfulness and having all the right curves - beauty. That's it.

At 26, theres plenty of catching up for you in terms of ur smv.

Those guys out there thats consistently (regulars) partying are in their 30's or 40's and it's mostly white collar dudes.

 

[old_skoolr]

Have you tried developing a coke habit?

Nah but seriously, it's not your job its you. I know people with deadset boring jobs, but as soon as they leave the office, there completely different animals.

Don't focus on your work, focus on your life, what do you do in your downtime? what are your hobbies? How do you spend your weekends?

These are all more important then what your job description is.

Also based by your username, I''m right in saying it is you not the job lol

 

[Soflobro#3]

A man's smv is not equal to a women's. A man is rated based on his ambition, his current lifestyle, his integrity, his passions, his manliness and being good looking is just a bonus. While a women's smv is her youthfulness and having all the right curves - beauty. That's it.

At 26, theres plenty of catching up for you in terms of ur smv.

Those guys out there thats consistently (regulars) partying are in their 30's or 40's and it's mostly white collar dudes.

On this forum they're mostly white collar dudes. In real life men who do manly jobs need this forum, they already have the ability.

 

[Spaz]

On this forum they're mostly white collar dudes. In real life men who do manly jobs need this forum, they already have the ability.

This makes no sense without an edit.