"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to handle a wife

tatlongxxx

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How to handle relationship when you are married?
Actually this bothers me and affect my entire life, i think I’m pressured on what should be done everyday when I’m with her and when I’m not. I’m bored and I know she feel this too. I want some actions but I don’t know how?
How do I spend my life with her?

Please help me not to lose her……
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What country are you from?
 

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You are bored. There is your problem

Get a hobby, or work more.

You need some enjoyment in your life. Have he get into something to.
 

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tatlongxxx said:
How to handle relationship when you are married?
Actually this bothers me and affect my entire life, i think I’m pressured on what should be done everyday when I’m with her and when I’m not. I’m bored and I know she feel this too. I want some actions but I don’t know how?
How do I spend my life with her?

Please help me not to lose her……
Don't know how old is she.
How long you being married?
How long you known her and for how long you dated (prior to marriage)?
Children?
Work schedules?
Race/Ethnicity (yours and hers)?
Do you live in the U.S. or Europe or Asia?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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