"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to get the girl to chase you?

noneother

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Well I get the idea that playing hard to get can do wonders for a woman's attraction level. How do you go about getting her to start working for your attention anyway?
I mean originally you'll (most likely) be the pursuer, the chick will become accustomed to your efforts so what makes her want to chase you? The girl could be an attention seeker in the first place...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GloriouslyInsane

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2 steps forward,1 step back / push and pull ,whatever you call it.For an simple example that happened lately.I was dancing with this hb7,kinoed and did a full 180 and danced with her ug5 friend,then i moved a bit and she popped in front of me and started dancing again,i don't know if you meant like literal "chasing" but i guess to put it in action she has to be doing it psychologically too :p
 
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