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How to get reputation and respect back?

xz1b|t

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Ok, I just lost a lot of respect and reputation at school today.

Some idiot put glue all over my lock, its normally funny but he annoys me all the time, so it wasnt funny and I was pretty pissed off.

So then the coordinator walks past and starts blaming me for being late (I was cleaning my lock).

I told her that a certain someone did this.
(Someone told me who it was)

Then that guy got an afterschool detention and community service for a bit.

He has a lot of friends too and lots of them were friends of mine, but now they are angry at me too because I told.
*I knew I should just fought him or something

Now not only that guy, but lots of other guys are not my friends anymore b'cos of that and I lost a fair bit of reputation aswell.

I still got plenty of other friends, but I still wanna be friends with those guys too.

So my question is, how do I get my rep back and respect from my ex/friends back.

I mean, if he didnt put the glue on my lock, this never would have happened!

Thanks for the help guys
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wow dude,i know if that happened with me,no one would care. those 'friends' that dont like you cause of that petty **** really arent your friends. thats how high school is i guess.
 

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Who the **** puts glue on a locker? U in high school or middle school
 

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Originally posted by A7Xx
Who the **** puts glue on a locker? U in high school or middle school
Never happened to me, but it's happened where someone actually glued the whole locker shut. It's common.
 

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back button, use it
 

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You could of just said nice joke, and get him back later and still talk to everyone no?

You lost your cool by getting angry about it.

If it were me I would of laughed my ass off to and get him back with a better prank.

OR you can resolve it with a boxing match.
 

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Originally posted by xz1b|t
I'm in year 10
Year 10 lmao sound like your straight outa Hogwarts.
 

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Originally posted by 360
Year 10 lmao sound like your straight outa Hogwarts.
which you've obviously read :rolleyes: lol

good books, those


don't make a scene out of it. just get the lock cleaned up quietly and don't get angry. then, glue his locker closed. he won't blame you because he started it and you both know it, plus your getting even and one upping him.
 

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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stuff like that happens, dont worry

real friends don't get mad over stupid reasons, so if they keep messing with you about it, just be like damn, he put glue on my lock, and someone told me who it was, whats the f*ckin problem so yea, dont trip about them

yea and that was some childish stuff, our lockers have these little holes on top, and today after 7th hour when i opened my locker there was like some liquid over books, and there was an empty bottle of Mountain Dew a locker down. it wasnt so bad, i dont know if it was done on purpose or not, but the point is, stuff happens, you just cant let it stress you out.

i did some stuff like that, one time during an assembly we were givin little bags, which contained toothpaste, a condom, and brochures and sh*t. well i took the toothpaste, and would put a little dab on the underside of people's padlocks, then i would watch the reaction when people would take the lock, then get their fingers full of paste, then they would be all grossed out and wouldnt know what it was. i laughed at the time, but now these little type of pranks dont seem so funny.

just act like it doesnt bother you, if they are real friends they will realize they are mad for a stupid reason and they will come back.
 

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ill admit that snitching isnt cool, but you were justified. and those other guys arnt real friends, and are not worth your time. and the guy that did that is an immature little prick
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
which you've obviously read :rolleyes: lol

good books, those


don't make a scene out of it. just get the lock cleaned up quietly and don't get angry. then, glue his locker closed. he won't blame you because he started it and you both know it, plus your getting even and one upping him.
Who hasn't read them i love those books. :cool:
Notice how he is a snitch lol. The coincidences get weirder and weirder.
 

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I'm not a snitch, i never tell on ppl.

She just came to me and asked who did it, I didnt think that she'd actually do anything
 
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