“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How to get over your ex?

R5D2

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Any suggestions? So far tried getting back on the horse with other girls, seeing her, not seeing her, deleting her number, thinking of everything I disliked about her.

Thing is, I think I'm still in love with her, and I know she wants to get back, but I'm joining the navy next summer and don't wanna be tied down...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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insanity

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right now would be a hard time not focusing on your ex cause christmas is around the corner. your probably noticing couples are all over the place cause of christmas shopping and people tend to talk about the one there going out with cause of the time of season.

i won't lie. spending christmas with someone is a blast. but you have to think there are tons of women out there who are single looking for men around this time. just think though that you don't have to spend alot of money on a woman this year. spend it on yourself and have fun. people tend to feel sorry for themselves if they are single around christmas and new years because chances are that you have friends who have a significant other. don't focus on them. enjoy your singlehood and make a new years resolution to meet a new great girl in 2007
 

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the best thing to get over with your ex is...Anticipating that what ever you sucky feeling you have ryt now..youll eventually get over with her sooner or later.. try your best to be busy....and dont rush youre self to recover... the best thing to do is forget her..do everything to forget her...

And try to find on the search (search title only) the word dump .."dump"..youll find great topics there concerning how to get over your ex or even having her back...
 

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Here's an idea: do things that make you happy and have fun. Do not think about women, do not think about the ex, and forget about relationships for now. There is so much more to life than women, and all of it is worth pursuing.
 

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Thanks guys! Its a bad time of year to be getting over an ex. Especially when we both still love each other and she wants me back.

I'm in two minds, part of me wants to get back because I miss all the great things we do together (no other girl has made me feel like that) whilst the other part of me wants to move on but stay friends (although she can't be 'just' friends because she's so in love with me - she says).

I think time is the best healer, but you need time apart, which isn't possible when you live close by and your parents invite her round for drinks over christmas.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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kyphan said:
Here's an idea: do things that make you happy and have fun. Do not think about women, do not think about the ex, and forget about relationships for now. There is so much more to life than women, and all of it is worth pursuing.
I agree. Focus on yourself until you feell better about yourself (not your past relationship). It's surprising how much better you are with sarging when you feel good about yourself.
 

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The best/easiest way to get over an Ex. is to get another chic under you. I know how you feel....
 

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yep..agree..but dont transfer you heavy emotions to that new prospect girl or youll screw up things and do to things that signifiesw youre being needy..Mostly guys who just been dump and try to get away with that pain to seeking new prospect girls usually end up getting dump because they rush things they want the girl to be there girl friend instantly and most commonly they show there feeling to fast...

Its much better to let your self recover before hitting a new chick
 
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