I realize that being in the friend zone is often like a black hole -- once you get sucked in there is simply no coming out. Ever. I figured this out the hard way, and nowadays I STILL sometimes find myself ending up in the friend zone or becoming an orbiter. But at least now I am perfectly aware of when it happens.
So here's my question. Let's say you find yourself in the friend zone, but have no reason to actually remain friends. She is not in your circle of regular friends, there is no history of friendship between you two, essentially you have nothing to lose. Normally I would just walk away from the situation and sever all contact.
However, instead of walking away I'm considering a different course of action. Continue to spend time with her, and each time you hang out -- simply make advances that cannot be mistaken for anything except your intent to eventually fvck her. For example, kino that cannot be mistaken for just being "touchy." Then just continue to escalate until you get rejected, and/or she stops agreeing to hang out with you altogether.
Of course it would be best to avoid the friend zone from the start...but I'm thinking this is the only possible way to reverse it. After all, once you're in the friend zone you have nothing to lose.
This is essentially a product of the following mindset: If you are a man with testicles then you are going to have sexual tension around all females. Even if it's your best friend's girlfriend. That's how humans are wired. In the case of your best friend's girlfriend, you consciously suppress those feelings. We can't be blamed for our animal instinct, just like females can't be blamed for stupid sh!t that they do but it's just how female psychology works. It's often the suppression of those very sexual urges that land us in the friend zone in the first place.
Thoughts?
So here's my question. Let's say you find yourself in the friend zone, but have no reason to actually remain friends. She is not in your circle of regular friends, there is no history of friendship between you two, essentially you have nothing to lose. Normally I would just walk away from the situation and sever all contact.
However, instead of walking away I'm considering a different course of action. Continue to spend time with her, and each time you hang out -- simply make advances that cannot be mistaken for anything except your intent to eventually fvck her. For example, kino that cannot be mistaken for just being "touchy." Then just continue to escalate until you get rejected, and/or she stops agreeing to hang out with you altogether.
Of course it would be best to avoid the friend zone from the start...but I'm thinking this is the only possible way to reverse it. After all, once you're in the friend zone you have nothing to lose.
This is essentially a product of the following mindset: If you are a man with testicles then you are going to have sexual tension around all females. Even if it's your best friend's girlfriend. That's how humans are wired. In the case of your best friend's girlfriend, you consciously suppress those feelings. We can't be blamed for our animal instinct, just like females can't be blamed for stupid sh!t that they do but it's just how female psychology works. It's often the suppression of those very sexual urges that land us in the friend zone in the first place.
Thoughts?
