"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to get more girls to like me

Scott0623

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Okay. latley i have been feeling pretty lonely. I mean girls talk to me but after they talk to me once or twice they just end up not liking me atall. i don't understand. i mean the only reason i could think why is because i put off the vibe of being kind of shy. for example the other day i went up to this girl and said hey how are u and she said fine and asked me my name. i talked to her for a little bit and felt like she thought i was pretty cool. but the next day she didn't even hardly talk to me. so idk. it's like everytime i try to talk to a girl it ends up goin downhill. and i have no clue why. i just wish girls would just talk to me like i see them talking to other guys. always laughing and flirting with them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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u have to go talk to them first. As they get more comfortable around you, they will start talking to you more often.
 

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sportsfan89 said:
u have to go talk to them first. As they get more comfortable around you, they will start talking to you more often.
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Scott0623

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how do u make them feel more comfortable around u. i mean i do talk to them a lot and they never do start to talk to me like they do ne other guy. i mean i don't think that bad of a guy
 
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