"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to get invited to parties.

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I didn't really think you needed an invitation for open house parties and that sorta stuff. My friends and I usually arrive at house parties uninvited all the time and it's not much of a big deal.

Find out when the party stars, than arrive like an hour late or so when people start having their buzzes and the like, where they'll be a friendly party vibe.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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crossboss said:
So basically, I need to act like I enjoy life, and not bicth about it.

How do you show you have some value?

Follow the tips on the site, you are in charge, don't slave around just because someone else asks you to. Of course that doesn't mean chat up guys, but for instance if you're talking, and they try to but in, ignore them. "Oh, im going to go a different way, just to be awkward and see if you're my true friend", keep walking the way you would and let your friend run back to you. You're there to do what you want, not to slave around for his amusement. Saying that, don't become a right ******* and try and make them slave around for you.
 
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