how to get her to like me

[Vercetti]

To give a breif history of myself, or moreover my situation, I must say that I have never had a girlfriend, or been kissed, or been on a date. In fact the closest I ever came was that I asked one person out, and she turned me down.
To the main point. There is a girl that I have noticed at my school. I have known her for a coupple of years, and we have become good friends. This is where the problem is. I wish to ask her out, but if it fails, I am worried that our friendship will end.
I have had personal experience with these troubbles before. It was the exact same girl whom turned me down before. Afterwards, she avoided me. My friendship is dear with her; however, I do wish to ask her out.
What I need is for a solution to position myself as to asking her out, without endangering our friendship. I do not wish to have a repeat of the same mistake I made before. If anyone could provide some assistance, I would be eternally grateful

-A friend of Vercetti

 

[Sammo]

Forget about her, improve yourself, read the bible, read my EDI series. Go after he once you are ready, right now you are not.

 

[Capi Crimini]

Sure. I would love to.

Don;t ask her out "force her out". Tell her Lets go to the movies jus to hang out or lets go to luch what time should I pick you up nine or ten. Just hang out with her. She'll naturally accet it as a relationship. Jus take time. NEver ask a gilr to straigh out be her G/F or go out together reeks of desperation.

FOr some reson I feel my opinion is about to be critisied. Oh well

 

[Vercetti]

good point, but won't work

Originally posted by Capi Crimini
Sure. I would love to.

Don;t ask her out "force her out". Tell her Lets go to the movies jus to hang out or lets go to luch what time should I pick you up nine or ten. Just hang out with her. She'll naturally accet it as a relationship. Jus take time. NEver ask a gilr to straigh out be her G/F or go out together reeks of desperation.

FOr some reson I feel my opinion is about to be critisied. Oh well

You make a valad point; however, I must say that it won't work. We used to be good friends, but she never really got over the fact that I asked her out. Now we really aren't close enough to get together outside of school. I have tried to regain the closeness that we had before, but she seemes defensive. This is why I am afraid of loosing what friendship we have left.
P.S. I have tried your tactic before(That was my original plan when I first asked her out); however, my consience wouldn't allow me to lie to her when she asked if it was a date or not.

 

[Capi Crimini]

OK. my sencind bet. continue being friend. forget about her for the moment and og out with other chicks. As long as you have a friendship time will only alow for more.Focus on other chicks right now. If things were meant it will happen.

You got the lucky half of fate Igot the reverse so be happy.Live life and wait.

 

[dbot]

I know I say this a lot, but for good reason: If your friendship can't survive you asking her out, then it isn't much of a friendship.

 

[Sir Auron]

Well I know that trying to get with a girl when your in a friendship with her is never good news, because it destorys her trust in you... hard to explain, but I've seen the proof 3 times already at my school.

You may want to read my reply here, exact same problem... different guy, you're not alone

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=37961