im a beginner and cant explain everything. but, the facts speak for themselves. these are several of my experiences:
three girls. girl A, B and C.
A.) worked at my job; a cool, energetic pizza/pub restaurant. im a server, she was a hostess. over a 1-2 month period i used c&f/kino. playfully teasing, flirting, then tickling and even ass-slapping after she become comfortable around me. while WORKING together, if i was standing in one spot, shed stand in front of me and put her ass against my.. you get the idea.
enough was enough, so i invited her over to watch a movie and have some drinks. (both of us were young; 17). in short, i kept the conversation light and funny during the ride to my place. she came in, i gave her the tour of my pad. kept up the c&f. led her to the couch, had her sit down while i made a couple tequila sunrises. turned off the lights, popped in the movie and sat down.
at first, we were sitting about 2 ft from eachother. i played it cool, toned down the c&f and started getting into more of a "bedroom" mood. let everything mellow out... within 10-15 mins, we were running eachothers fingers over our hands. shortly after, we "got comfortable" and had her lay against me. within 45 minutes from walking in, we were comfortably cuddling in a spoons position.
it was gold from there.
B.) again, a hostess from work - i cant resist.. =). girl b heard rumors that i fooled around with girl A, which pumped some social proof into the situation. like the other, i kept it light. used kino, c&f.. eventually it lead to ass slapping and other "deeper" aspects of kino; as opposed to the lighter things like momentarily brushing their arms as you elaborate on a point.
like before, had her over for drinks and a movie. same routine. gave her the tour, laid out the c&f. made some delicious drinks - gilligans islands; bacardi rum, malibu coconut flavored rum, then pineapple and other juices. flipped the lights off, popped the movie, hit the couch. mellowed it out. ended up cuddling like before.. and i actually held back on rounding the bases. it got to the point where she was literally laying on top of me, trying to get me to kiss her. lol =)
C.) met her through my job as well - god i love being a server. she was a customer who started coming in months before i played with girl B. LOOOOOOOONG story short, c&f, invited her over for the FIRST DATE - drinks & movie. SAME EXACT routine as the other two. only this time, i was at 2nd base within about 20 mins.
i wont lie to you, i didnt successfully DJ all three girls. i didnt be the "mack daddy" and play all three at once.
what i find interesting though, is that all three opened up the same way. c&f, kino, then drinks, movie, dark room, comfortable couch (and bed...). knowing the girls for at least a month played a part, im sure. it built rapport; a connection which made them feel comfortable around me. otherwise, i believe theyd be less likely to come over, hop on the couch and into my lap. either way, you cant argue with the results.