"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to get her back and some queries

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i know the rules say you should move on, but out of curiosity is there any technique or techniques to get your dream woman back, any rules to follow and things to avoid. in adition i was just wondering has anyone got a link for the dujuan bible, i lost the link i need to read it, thanks

oh yeah another question, how do you flirt with woman, do you avoid them, when walking past, or stare at them, or how, i notice some woman look in your direction but when your too close they look at you but quickly pretending to just shift there head, or to make it as though their looking at something else.

ok, my tip, i notice this has helped me, not sure for others, but i notice when your walking, or walking and a womans walking past, just walk straight dont move, even if you are walking straight at her, my advise never move for anyone, and they touch you, as a result....and alsd also like i catch a bus or train, when getting up, dont move just stop, make them move out the way, i did it to a girls boyfriend, he was sitting next to me, i just got up, stopped, made him get up and move, i think it displayed confidence and later the woman smiled and was flirting with me, her legs touched me too, but dont move, normally i used to be the one moving out of the way in crowded position, but its cool now.....it was hard to explain it, but i hope you got it, i think i feel confident too, and now im bumping in to alot of woman even just walking past, its odd they dont move out of the way, one girl even stroked my shoulders too, while we were walking, opposite direction, and i didnt even know or speak to her..hope it helped, but i need some advice on body language etc
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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send me a detailed PM on this forum with your exact situation and i will do my best to help u get your ex back
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150900

i think youve seen my situation already, this is it, i personally promise ill buy your book if theres progress of your skills and techniques..its hard, i know many said dont reply but after a couple of days i did, then she replied back saying she loves me etc..but after a few days thinks changed we spoke on msn this is what happened


oh yeah we sent mails then she said i should move on after, i came up with a stupid plan that im in love with someone else to make her jelous, ive replied since, i sent her an audio too, saying i love her, i wrote a poem, etc, but no replies, its been 2 weeks since last time we spoke,

hers the poem
The Queen of the phillippines, Cherrie Lynn Capoya wonderfull, beautifull, sparkly queen that overcomes my heart, my being, soul, if only you could seeill reveal my experience, my passion, lust and hopewithout her, my life, my dream, i just cannot copeYou are my life, you are my every happiness
You are love itself, you are passion and romance initself
You are my life, you are my every happiness
You are my first experience with love
That which could not be extinguished, you are that thirstYou are my first wish, you are my last My heart's every wound sincerely prays for you, forget the past
May the lord give you all the world's happiness and me all the pain I could not forget you, that is my weakness, although i sound insane slowly slowly u come into my life slowly slowly u steal away my heart how much love i have for u my dear, we cant leave apart meeting you i need to tell you from the time i have seen you my heart is not at rest on my lips there is no other name than yours, you are the best i have become your crazy lover you have always woken me in the night and my sleep was stolen by the sweet sweet words, i love every moment, you beauty overcomes my sightso wonderfull this experience is being with you its the best thing everi love you so much, i love you within my heart foreveri crave for you , lust, obsessall the beautifull words you can think of thats me i confess


anyway you may think im a pure afc but thats why im here, i can attract woman just i want her, i treat her special, my last mail to her, today
i missed you so much today, i left the comp on when i went to university by mistake, i was online then...while i was in school i felt like i coudnt cope, i couldnt stop thinking about you, i wanted to get home quickly, as soon as possible in hope that you came online and replied..i dont think ive ever missed and wanted you so much as i wanted you today, ive never felt so desperate for you ever the way i feel now...like life just isnt the same, your like my bright sunshine, its awfully dark and gloomy, horrible if you ask me, without you, i cant stop myself from loving you, i will never beable too.


oh yeah, we dont see each other much now, cause we live far, last few months weve just been mailing and ringing each other, now me just mailing, her boyfriend snapped her sim card after he found my texts thats when she lost interest, any advice
 

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we chatting

19/09/2008 12:06:21 keser cherrie hi
19/09/2008 12:06:24 cherrie keser hey
19/09/2008 12:06:35 keser cherrie ill be starting next week
19/09/2008 12:06:41 cherrie keser oh
19/09/2008 12:06:41 keser cherrie todays a day off
19/09/2008 12:06:45 cherrie keser goodluck
19/09/2008 12:06:51 cherrie keser i wish you all the best
19/09/2008 12:06:55 keser cherrie but its been really busy for me lately
19/09/2008 12:07:00 keser cherrie thanks
19/09/2008 12:07:10 cherrie keser well that's good
19/09/2008 12:07:17 keser cherrie lol, ive also joined my university team aswell
19/09/2008 12:07:24 cherrie keser ok
19/09/2008 12:07:24 keser cherrie how have you been
19/09/2008 12:07:28 cherrie keser im good
19/09/2008 12:07:32 cherrie keser well, better
19/09/2008 12:07:36 keser cherrie thats good to know
19/09/2008 12:07:40 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 12:07:47 keser cherrie yh,
19/09/2008 12:07:48 cherrie keser thanks for your prayers they worked on me
19/09/2008 12:08:00 cherrie keser i haven't read your mails yet
19/09/2008 12:08:02 keser cherrie did they, well i did pray all night once
19/09/2008 12:08:07 cherrie keser i just got online
19/09/2008 12:08:10 keser cherrie you might aswell
19/09/2008 12:08:12 keser cherrie oh
19/09/2008 12:08:14 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:08:31 cherrie keser im reading them now
19/09/2008 12:08:33 keser cherrie ok
19/09/2008 12:08:47 keser cherrie hey thanks for everything
19/09/2008 12:08:59 keser cherrie im actually speechless
19/09/2008 12:09:01 cherrie keser i;ve not done something good to you
19/09/2008 12:09:15 keser cherrie yh, you have
19/09/2008 12:09:35 keser cherrie your one of a kind
19/09/2008 12:09:47 keser cherrie hey guess what
19/09/2008 12:09:47 cherrie keser thanks
19/09/2008 12:09:50 cherrie keser what
19/09/2008 12:09:53 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 12:10:23 keser cherrie it was raining that day when i was gonna face that guy, so im gonna face him tomorrow
19/09/2008 12:10:34 keser cherrie the money all of it goes to charity
19/09/2008 12:10:46 keser cherrie i think i need a challange
19/09/2008 12:10:53 keser cherrie ive got a plan
19/09/2008 12:10:59 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:11:14 cherrie keser so the rain was on a timing
19/09/2008 12:11:29 keser cherrie im gonna ball fast, then if it doesnt work, ill pretend to ball one fast and decieve him with a slower ball
19/09/2008 12:11:33 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 12:11:48 keser cherrie good for me, atleast my reputation is still in place
19/09/2008 12:12:02 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:12:12 cherrie keser you should still bowl fast
19/09/2008 12:12:16 keser cherrie if it was hot, and i didnt show everyone would think im a coward and the crowd wont like my absence
19/09/2008 12:12:19 cherrie keser everybody's expecting that from you
19/09/2008 12:12:24 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 12:12:43 keser cherrie well i dont know how fast i am now, ive not measured my pace
19/09/2008 12:12:49 keser cherrie but lol, guess what
19/09/2008 12:12:57 cherrie keser reduced?
19/09/2008 12:13:01 keser cherrie the first thing my coach said when he saw me
19/09/2008 12:13:14 keser cherrie lol, he said youve gone alot thinner
19/09/2008 12:13:35 keser cherrie i dont know, i could even be faster, ive not measured my speed
19/09/2008 12:13:47 keser cherrie hopefully itll be up there 90mph
19/09/2008 12:13:58 cherrie keser so you dreamt of me again
19/09/2008 12:14:04 keser cherrie i wanna reach that level
19/09/2008 12:14:19 keser cherrie haha, yh, but it was quite different
19/09/2008 12:14:30 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:14:33 cherrie keser inspiring
19/09/2008 12:14:44 keser cherrie it gave me the encouragement i needed
19/09/2008 12:14:45 cherrie keser i've read your first mail
19/09/2008 12:14:48 cherrie keser hey
19/09/2008 12:14:50 keser cherrie oh
19/09/2008 12:15:17 cherrie keser sorry , really i am
19/09/2008 12:15:18 keser cherrie anyhow, another funny thing happened to me
19/09/2008 12:15:23 cherrie keser i hope you're ok now
19/09/2008 12:15:36 keser cherrie lol, someone was talking and the lecturer thought it was me
19/09/2008 12:15:40 keser cherrie yh i am
19/09/2008 12:15:51 keser cherrie so she was saying things, i was quite
19/09/2008 12:16:01 cherrie keser lucky you
19/09/2008 12:16:02 cherrie keser hahaha
19/09/2008 12:16:09 keser cherrie but then as soon as i said, it wasnt me, she realised
19/09/2008 12:16:17 keser cherrie my voice was different
19/09/2008 12:16:26 keser cherrie lol, she appologised
19/09/2008 12:16:41 keser cherrie i hated it when everyone turned around and looked at me
19/09/2008 12:16:52 keser cherrie haha, but its cool
19/09/2008 12:16:54 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:17:09 keser cherrie cause i asked her some hard questions afterwards
19/09/2008 12:17:16 keser cherrie lol
19/09/2008 12:17:17 cherrie keser but they'll regret that later if they found out you're the best in class
19/09/2008 12:17:22 cherrie keser hahaha
19/09/2008 12:17:32 keser cherrie yh, i hope, but noone really knows me
19/09/2008 12:17:50 keser cherrie although ive made some nice friends better than the ones before
19/09/2008 12:18:02 keser cherrie they not indian though, like before
19/09/2008 12:18:17 keser cherrie so it was odd, they couldnt understand me sometimes haha
19/09/2008 12:18:39 keser cherrie have you read the mails
19/09/2008 12:18:51 cherrie keser so how was the palestinian girl doin now
19/09/2008 12:18:57 cherrie keser i'm reading the last one
19/09/2008 12:19:10 keser cherrie im not sure what my accent is, cause english people speak abit different
19/09/2008 12:19:23 keser cherrie i think its indian/english combined haha
19/09/2008 12:19:25 cherrie keser hey did you really deleted my mails when you said you'd delete them?
19/09/2008 12:19:36 keser cherrie which ones
19/09/2008 12:19:51 keser cherrie i didnt say i deleted your mails
19/09/2008 12:20:11 cherrie keser what did you say?
19/09/2008 12:20:24 keser cherrie i cant remember, which mail is it in
19/09/2008 12:20:45 keser cherrie are you sure it wasnt a dream?
19/09/2008 12:20:52 keser cherrie lol
19/09/2008 12:21:00 keser cherrie serously i cant remember
19/09/2008 12:21:41 keser cherrie if i said somrthing like that, im sorry, ive not deleted anything
19/09/2008 12:21:47 cherrie keser hmm
19/09/2008 12:21:57 cherrie keser when you waited for me
19/09/2008 12:22:13 keser cherrie when?
19/09/2008 12:22:16 cherrie keser and i came on a little later after your mail
19/09/2008 12:22:27 keser cherrie is it a past mail
19/09/2008 12:22:30 keser cherrie or now
19/09/2008 12:22:45 keser cherrie serously i dont remember
19/09/2008 12:23:08 keser cherrie you got me mixed up with someone else
19/09/2008 12:23:16 keser cherrie or something different
19/09/2008 12:23:17 cherrie keser no
19/09/2008 12:23:20 cherrie keser hahhaa
19/09/2008 12:23:23 keser cherrie are you sure
19/09/2008 12:23:29 keser cherrie when was this?
19/09/2008 12:23:34 cherrie keser you've forgotten
19/09/2008 12:23:38 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 12:23:58 cherrie keser when you told me to go on yahoo
19/09/2008 12:24:04 keser cherrie well since ive had those tablets i cant really remember what happened that day truthfully
19/09/2008 12:24:11 keser cherrie yh i remember that,
19/09/2008 12:24:23 keser cherrie but not me saying ill delete your mails
19/09/2008 12:24:47 keser cherrie anyway i would never do that, i enjoy you mailing me
19/09/2008 12:24:56 cherrie keser hey
19/09/2008 12:25:01 cherrie keser im viewing it now
19/09/2008 12:25:02 keser cherrie are you really sure it wasnt a dream? haha
19/09/2008 12:25:07 cherrie keser the space of the girl
19/09/2008 12:25:08 cherrie keser it's nice
19/09/2008 12:25:14 cherrie keser very touching
19/09/2008 12:25:19 keser cherrie yh, i met her, dont know her
19/09/2008 12:25:29 keser cherrie on the bus
19/09/2008 12:25:39 cherrie keser oh
19/09/2008 12:25:49 cherrie keser i thought in the university
19/09/2008 12:25:50 keser cherrie lol, but she told me all about it the horror
19/09/2008 12:25:53 keser cherrie no
19/09/2008 12:26:09 keser cherrie shes alot older, although there are mature students
19/09/2008 12:26:15 keser cherrie ive just met her once
19/09/2008 12:26:32 keser cherrie it made me worry alot about you too
19/09/2008 12:27:03 keser cherrie and made me think, about me,
19/09/2008 12:27:28 keser cherrie you there?
19/09/2008 12:27:32 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:27:34 cherrie keser the pictures
19/09/2008 12:27:41 keser cherrie i know,
19/09/2008 12:27:47 cherrie keser the children arent really safe here
19/09/2008 12:27:51 keser cherrie heartbreaking
19/09/2008 12:28:02 keser cherrie yh, its in palastine not uk
19/09/2008 12:28:09 keser cherrie shes from there
19/09/2008 12:28:19 keser cherrie but came hjere
19/09/2008 12:28:24 keser cherrie thats how we know
19/09/2008 12:28:34 cherrie keser though children here in the phils don't go to school cause of poverty.. no one harrasses them like that
 

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19/09/2008 12:28:35 keser cherrie i hope to do something one day
19/09/2008 12:28:47 keser cherrie yh,
19/09/2008 12:29:06 keser cherrie thats how it is even for muslims in iraq and afghanistan
19/09/2008 12:29:25 keser cherrie but they dont show it much on t.v
19/09/2008 12:29:26 cherrie keser my
19/09/2008 12:29:51 cherrie keser im thankful im safe here
19/09/2008 12:30:05 keser cherrie in the uk itsd not like this, not that bad, were safe
19/09/2008 12:30:17 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:30:19 keser cherrie but not our fellow muslims
19/09/2008 12:31:01 keser cherrie anyway, life is a struggle, but sometimes you need to stand up and be patient, and fight the struggle
19/09/2008 12:31:10 cherrie keser who are these guys with guns?
19/09/2008 12:31:19 keser cherrie israelis dont you know
19/09/2008 12:31:23 cherrie keser are they palestinians too?
19/09/2008 12:31:26 keser cherrie no
19/09/2008 12:31:27 cherrie keser oh yeah
19/09/2008 12:31:33 keser cherrie soldiers
19/09/2008 12:31:34 cherrie keser they've been enemy since
19/09/2008 12:31:40 keser cherrie remember after the ww2
19/09/2008 12:31:42 cherrie keser enemies
19/09/2008 12:31:49 keser cherrie because of hitler etc
19/09/2008 12:31:54 cherrie keser ive read about them in the bible
19/09/2008 12:31:59 keser cherrie they came to palastine to stay
19/09/2008 12:32:04 cherrie keser ok
19/09/2008 12:32:09 keser cherrie yh, and before that too
19/09/2008 12:32:11 cherrie keser hitler
19/09/2008 12:32:17 cherrie keser who's side was he?
19/09/2008 12:32:31 cherrie keser hmmm.. wasn't he german?
19/09/2008 12:32:38 keser cherrie but we believe the followers of moses peace be upon him, were muslims, even jesus etc
19/09/2008 12:32:44 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 12:33:07 keser cherrie hitler yh german, declared war, on neighbouring countries took land
19/09/2008 12:33:14 keser cherrie believed in an arian race
19/09/2008 12:33:20 keser cherrie thats blond, white
19/09/2008 12:33:27 keser cherrie and killed others
19/09/2008 12:33:29 cherrie keser ok
[/COLOR]19/09/2008 12:33:46 keser cherrie so if he had won the war, we probably would be on his list
19/09/2008 12:34:01 keser cherrie lol, were brown, black hair blagh blah
19/09/2008 12:34:02 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:34:19 cherrie keser a lot of pictures here
19/09/2008 12:34:23 cherrie keser and i just can
19/09/2008 12:34:23 keser cherrie how is the baby anyway
19/09/2008 12:34:35 cherrie keser i think it's good
19/09/2008 12:34:45 keser cherrie im thinking of giving charity atleast
19/09/2008 12:34:59 cherrie keser well. i think i have to spend more time looking at these
19/09/2008 12:35:10 keser cherrie ok, i told you
19/09/2008 12:35:19 keser cherrie its not good
19/09/2008 12:35:28 cherrie keser yeah you should
19/09/2008 12:35:36 keser cherrie and you?
19/09/2008 12:35:43 cherrie keser the philippines need help too
19/09/2008 12:35:55 keser cherrie they are the true warriors
19/09/2008 12:35:55 cherrie keser i better help my country first
19/09/2008 12:36:02 keser cherrie yh,
19/09/2008 12:36:24 keser cherrie well the uks one of the richest countrys so we have less problems
19/09/2008 12:36:45 keser cherrie its good to help everyone, were the same really
19/09/2008 12:36:45 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:37:03 cherrie keser her daughter's beautiful
19/09/2008 12:37:08 cherrie keser she's a good writer
19/09/2008 12:37:10 keser cherrie we may look different but ive realised everyones the same
19/09/2008 12:37:18 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 12:37:31 keser cherrie i like her style of writing
19/09/2008 12:37:38 keser cherrie it gets you in the heart
19/09/2008 12:37:55 cherrie keser because you feel her ...
19/09/2008 12:38:09 keser cherrie shes a good person, in a bad load of mess
19/09/2008 12:38:10 cherrie keser she writes with a crying but brave heart
19/09/2008 12:38:10 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 12:38:37 keser cherrie it made my tears drop
19/09/2008 12:38:59 keser cherrie i think the one of the best people ive ever met
19/09/2008 12:39:37 keser cherrie im wondering how is it like in the phillipines is that a struggle too
19/09/2008 12:39:52 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:39:54 cherrie keser a lot
19/09/2008 12:39:58 cherrie keser more on poverty
19/09/2008 12:40:01 keser cherrie lol, and america, the most powerfull, all it does is build weapons and attack
19/09/2008 12:40:07 keser cherrie really
19/09/2008 12:40:28 cherrie keser we've got muslims on the southern part that combats with the military currently
19/09/2008 12:40:35 keser cherrie im planning when i become a lawyer to contribute for the whole of mankind
19/09/2008 12:40:42 cherrie keser they want to be a separate state from the phils
19/09/2008 12:40:48 keser cherrie oh
19/09/2008 12:40:50 keser cherrie ok
19/09/2008 12:40:52 cherrie keser yeha
19/09/2008 12:41:02 keser cherrie hmm
19/09/2008 12:41:12 keser cherrie well we can do the best we can
19/09/2008 12:41:35 keser cherrie thats why, i wish we all go to paradise
19/09/2008 12:41:38 keser cherrie oneday
19/09/2008 12:41:58 keser cherrie even the prophets they faced even more hardship
19/09/2008 12:42:08 keser cherrie but you need to keep faith
19/09/2008 12:42:21 keser cherrie do what is good, spread peace and justice
19/09/2008 12:42:25 cherrie keser i really don't want to be one sided .. but i need to knw what really their side is.. seems like we're all hearing the side of the military
19/09/2008 12:42:29 cherrie keser and i hate it
19/09/2008 12:42:36 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 12:42:39 cherrie keser yeah as much as we could
19/09/2008 12:42:41 keser cherrie me too
19/09/2008 12:43:01 keser cherrie basically there just innocent people living in that land
19/09/2008 12:43:29 keser cherrie theres no one answer
19/09/2008 12:43:29 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:43:39 keser cherrie but just a struggle
19/09/2008 12:43:54 cherrie keser well so much for that
19/09/2008 12:43:58 cherrie keser ............
19/09/2008 12:43:58 keser cherrie damn the whole worlds almost suffering
19/09/2008 12:44:01 cherrie keser change topic
19/09/2008 12:44:02 cherrie keser hahhah
19/09/2008 12:44:10 cherrie keser that's normal
19/09/2008 12:44:12 keser cherrie yh, i dont wanna cartry on myself
19/09/2008 12:44:17 keser cherrie its hard
19/09/2008 12:44:23 cherrie keser sufferings make us remember god
19/09/2008 12:44:25 keser cherrie i cant asleep knowing about this
19/09/2008 12:44:30 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 12:44:43 cherrie keser so don't worry
19/09/2008 12:44:49 keser cherrie but theyll get their rewards in the hereafter
19/09/2008 12:45:03 cherrie keser yeah those who deserve it
19/09/2008 12:45:12 keser cherrie but look at me, all i do is help, sometimes protect few people
19/09/2008 12:45:19 keser cherrie but there are so many
19/09/2008 12:45:27 keser cherrie i wanna do something
19/09/2008 12:45:31 cherrie keser and you don't have to protect all of them
19/09/2008 12:45:36 keser cherrie hopefully go there and educate them
19/09/2008 12:45:37 cherrie keser you're not almighty
19/09/2008 12:45:38 cherrie keser hhahaha
19/09/2008 12:45:43 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 12:45:54 keser cherrie but i wanna do something by gods grace
19/09/2008 12:46:09 cherrie keser you can do that
19/09/2008 12:46:15 keser cherrie i siometimes read storys of the muslims,
19/09/2008 12:46:17 cherrie keser if you're willing
19/09/2008 12:46:19 cherrie keser hey
19/09/2008 12:46:33 cherrie keser im hungry again
19/09/2008 12:46:35 cherrie keser hahahha
19/09/2008 12:46:36 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 12:46:42 keser cherrie lol, and im fasting
19/09/2008 12:46:50 keser cherrie and not hungry at all
19/09/2008 12:46:56 keser cherrie i can control it
19/09/2008 12:46:59 cherrie keser oh good for you
19/09/2008 12:47:06 cherrie keser take care on fasting
19/09/2008 12:47:17 keser cherrie yh, i realise if you fast you become patient, honest etc
19/09/2008 12:47:24 keser cherrie it all falls into place
19/09/2008 12:47:46 cherrie keser ok
19/09/2008 12:47:49 keser cherrie you take care too, i have to admit i cant imagine you pregnant
19/09/2008 12:47:55 keser cherrie ive never seen you
19/09/2008 12:48:08 cherrie keser you can't
19/09/2008 12:48:10 keser cherrie like that, the image i get is when you was on the web cam
19/09/2008 12:48:20 keser cherrie i know i cant imagine it
19/09/2008 12:48:21 cherrie keser oh my im viewing dead children now
19/09/2008 12:48:24 cherrie keser gosh
19/09/2008 12:48:33 keser cherrie damn
19/09/2008 12:48:50 keser cherrie i was viweing it all yesterday i was shocjked
19/09/2008 12:49:03 keser cherrie i cant even click on that space its too horrific
19/09/2008 12:49:23 cherrie keser oh my god
19/09/2008 12:49:32 cherrie keser it's horrible
19/09/2008 12:49:36 keser cherrie and the media doesnt show this?
19/09/2008 12:49:43 keser cherrie no one knows
19/09/2008 12:49:45 cherrie keser i will have to comment on her space later
19/09/2008 12:49:49 cherrie keser i don't konw when
19/09/2008 12:49:53 cherrie keser or if i can
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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19/09/2008 12:49:57 keser cherrie yh, hopefully
19/09/2008 12:49:59 cherrie keser my
19/09/2008 12:50:20 keser cherrie lol, change the subject my hearts hurting like mad
19/09/2008 12:50:29 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:50:34 keser cherrie damn, i hate that feeling
19/09/2008 12:50:51 cherrie keser yeah you can't imagine how i look like
19/09/2008 12:50:56 keser cherrie no
19/09/2008 12:51:04 cherrie keser i don't even want to take a bath at times
19/09/2008 12:51:07 keser cherrie even your recent pics
19/09/2008 12:51:14 keser cherrie really
19/09/2008 12:51:17 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 12:51:18 cherrie keser hahahha
19/09/2008 12:51:32 keser cherrie lol, i think youd still look nice
19/09/2008 12:51:36 cherrie keser hahahah
19/09/2008 12:51:41 cherrie keser the worst look ever
19/09/2008 12:51:42 keser cherrie i think
19/09/2008 12:51:47 keser cherrie haha,
19/09/2008 12:52:03 keser cherrie im gonna bowl my heart out tmrw
19/09/2008 12:52:11 cherrie keser good luck
19/09/2008 12:52:19 keser cherrie cause the more people watch the more money for these people
19/09/2008 12:52:20 cherrie keser hey..........im dizzy now
19/09/2008 12:52:27 cherrie keser how long have we talked
19/09/2008 12:52:30 cherrie keser not that long right?
19/09/2008 12:52:35 keser cherrie lol, i wont beable to feel my body afterwards
19/09/2008 12:52:39 keser cherrie no
19/09/2008 12:52:46 keser cherrie hey takwe care
19/09/2008 12:52:47 cherrie keser hmm
19/09/2008 12:52:53 keser cherrie i wish you wasnt dizzy
19/09/2008 12:52:57 cherrie keser im have a running nose
19/09/2008 12:52:59 keser cherrie damn
19/09/2008 12:53:04 keser cherrie oh really
19/09/2008 12:53:14 cherrie keser and im always sneezing
19/09/2008 12:53:16 cherrie keser hahaha
19/09/2008 12:53:27 keser cherrie i wish i could do something, im like panaking right now
19/09/2008 12:53:31 cherrie keser it sometimes rains in here
19/09/2008 12:53:36 cherrie keser hahaha
19/09/2008 12:53:38 cherrie keser don't worry
19/09/2008 12:53:41 cherrie keser im ok
19/09/2008 12:53:43 keser cherrie im like twitching
19/09/2008 12:54:07 keser cherrie i hope so, i really care for you, i dont know whatll i do, if something went bad
19/09/2008 12:54:27 cherrie keser nothing bad willl happen to me
19/09/2008 12:54:33 keser cherrie yh,
19/09/2008 12:54:46 keser cherrie i pray to god to always guide you
19/09/2008 12:55:03 cherrie keser if you need to worry on someone.. that should be yourself ... because you're quick in making decisions and i hate that
19/09/2008 12:55:13 keser cherrie and i hope my heart atleast contibutes in making you comfortable and happy
19/09/2008 12:55:25 keser cherrie i know me too
19/09/2008 12:55:55 keser cherrie my mind wonders one place to another like a flash of lightening
19/09/2008 12:56:07 cherrie keser don't worry now ok?
19/09/2008 12:56:24 cherrie keser im totally fine .. well, better than you are
19/09/2008 12:56:25 cherrie keser hahaha
19/09/2008 12:56:42 keser cherrie even when im playing cricket, maybe thats why people like me, i dont have time to get scared, if someone does something i quickly intervene without a thought
19/09/2008 12:56:49 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 12:56:53 cherrie keser i even vomit some food out while you need more intake
19/09/2008 12:56:56 keser cherrie im glad to hear it
19/09/2008 12:57:05 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 12:57:16 keser cherrie now im feeling hungry,
19/09/2008 12:57:25 cherrie keser dont be
19/09/2008 12:57:31 keser cherrie i might eat what youve vommited hahaha
19/09/2008 12:57:34 cherrie keser you still have a long day ahead of you
19/09/2008 12:57:35 cherrie keser hahaha
19/09/2008 12:57:36 keser cherrie na im just joking
19/09/2008 12:57:42 cherrie keser ewww
19/09/2008 12:57:47 keser cherrie yhaha
19/09/2008 12:57:55 keser cherrie even i thought that as i wrote
19/09/2008 12:58:06 keser cherrie i might sick
19/09/2008 12:58:09 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 12:58:15 cherrie keser thanks for your mails
19/09/2008 12:58:20 cherrie keser i can't send you mails
19/09/2008 12:58:25 keser cherrie yh, they were from the heart
19/09/2008 12:58:30 keser cherrie ok
19/09/2008 12:58:34 cherrie keser they've always been
19/09/2008 12:58:42 keser cherrie ill send you, but i think itll be like 12 am
19/09/2008 12:58:48 keser cherrie cause im quite busy
19/09/2008 12:58:53 cherrie keser you don't have to
19/09/2008 12:58:58 keser cherrie yh, i wont too
19/09/2008 12:58:59 cherrie keser if your'e busy
19/09/2008 12:59:14 keser cherrie cause even though i have alot, and meet different people
19/09/2008 12:59:20 keser cherrie it does the opposite
19/09/2008 12:59:26 keser cherrie i miss you more
19/09/2008 12:59:43 cherrie keser keser i need to go .... meet more people...
19/09/2008 12:59:46 keser cherrie the last few days when international students come im like
19/09/2008 12:59:53 keser cherrie looking for you
19/09/2008 12:59:57 cherrie keser aahahaah
19/09/2008 13:00:01 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 13:00:08 keser cherrie i know but you never come
19/09/2008 13:00:11 keser cherrie you cant
19/09/2008 13:00:17 keser cherrie but i always hope
19/09/2008 13:00:19 cherrie keser hahahha
19/09/2008 13:00:25 keser cherrie you might suprise me
19/09/2008 13:00:30 cherrie keser hahahha
19/09/2008 13:00:38 cherrie keser i'm even broke
19/09/2008 13:00:42 keser cherrie anyway, im like missing you every day
19/09/2008 13:00:43 cherrie keser how can i surprise you
19/09/2008 13:00:43 cherrie keser hahahha
19/09/2008 13:00:49 keser cherrie haha, well
19/09/2008 13:00:56 cherrie keser i'll miss you
19/09/2008 13:00:57 keser cherrie there is one way you always do
19/09/2008 13:01:09 keser cherrie you come in my dreams i really love that
19/09/2008 13:01:11 cherrie keser thanks for everything
19/09/2008 13:01:17 keser cherrie come tonight ok
19/09/2008 13:01:22 keser cherrie you better come
19/09/2008 13:01:24 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 13:01:25 cherrie keser yeah... it's kind of hard
19/09/2008 13:01:34 cherrie keser travelporting
19/09/2008 13:01:35 cherrie keser hahahha
19/09/2008 13:01:42 keser cherrie haha, well try too
19/09/2008 13:01:48 keser cherrie i hope to see you
 

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19/09/2008 13:01:52 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 13:02:13 keser cherrie i really love you still, even though ikm busy and meet so much people
19/09/2008 13:02:19 keser cherrie no ones like you
19/09/2008 13:02:25 keser cherrie they dont have that
19/09/2008 13:02:28 keser cherrie what is it
19/09/2008 13:02:42 keser cherrie that spark, that trill within me
19/09/2008 13:02:47 cherrie keser what?
19/09/2008 13:02:49 cherrie keser hahhaa
19/09/2008 13:02:56 keser cherrie i only get that feeling with you
19/09/2008 13:03:04 cherrie keser im the only one here
19/09/2008 13:03:11 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 13:03:28 keser cherrie i still love you, im trying to move on
19/09/2008 13:03:35 cherrie keser i need to go before i grow more dizzy
19/09/2008 13:03:37 keser cherrie like really trying
19/09/2008 13:03:40 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 13:03:41 cherrie keser pls do
19/09/2008 13:03:46 keser cherrie i will
19/09/2008 13:03:48 cherrie keser you will make me proud
19/09/2008 13:03:53 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 13:04:02 keser cherrie cant you stay
19/09/2008 13:04:06 keser cherrie abit longer
19/09/2008 13:04:13 cherrie keser wait
19/09/2008 13:04:24 cherrie keser i'll just get my mango
19/09/2008 13:04:29 keser cherrie i dont see you often
19/09/2008 13:04:34 keser cherrie ok
19/09/2008 13:04:37 keser cherrie haha

19/09/2008 13:04:54 cherrie keser that's really better
19/09/2008 13:04:56 cherrie keser hahaha
19/09/2008 13:05:01 cherrie keser its a bit sour
19/09/2008 13:05:07 keser cherrie my heart for you, i love you cherrie
19/09/2008 13:05:10 cherrie keser so it prevents me from vomitting
19/09/2008 13:05:43 keser cherrie :)
19/09/2008 13:05:46 cherrie keser im eating
19/09/2008 13:05:54 keser cherrie ok, lol
19/09/2008 13:05:56 cherrie keser i will always love you
19/09/2008 13:05:59 cherrie keser you know that
19/09/2008 13:06:09 keser cherrie no i dont, not really
19/09/2008 13:06:26 keser cherrie but i know this that you wont meet anyone like me
19/09/2008 13:06:28 cherrie keser you make me proud on everything you do except killing yourself
19/09/2008 13:06:52 keser cherrie yh, well it only happens with you
19/09/2008 13:07:16 keser cherrie cause i sometimes feel really down, although i have everything
19/09/2008 13:07:44 cherrie keser i'm aware that i may not be able to meet someone like you
19/09/2008 13:07:48 keser cherrie its not the same without you
19/09/2008 13:07:53 cherrie keser sorry
19/09/2008 13:07:58 keser cherrie i know
19/09/2008 13:08:11 cherrie keser you're one of a kind
19/09/2008 13:08:11 keser cherrie you dont have to sayb that nomore
19/09/2008 13:08:25 cherrie keser the best kind
19/09/2008 13:08:27 cherrie keser hahahha
19/09/2008 13:08:30 keser cherrie you have nothing to be sorry for, its me
19/09/2008 13:08:50 keser cherrie imk not perfect, only you know my flaws
19/09/2008 13:09:00 cherrie keser hey.. i think my mind got used to the mango
19/09/2008 13:09:06 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 13:09:07 cherrie keser i can't deceive it anymore
19/09/2008 13:09:15 keser cherrie lol,
19/09/2008 13:09:24 keser cherrie how does it taste
19/09/2008 13:09:24 cherrie keser i need to go keser
19/09/2008 13:09:34 keser cherrie ok
19/09/2008 13:09:42 keser cherrie take care
19/09/2008 13:09:48 cherrie keser a little sour
19/09/2008 13:09:53 cherrie keser the mango?
19/09/2008 13:09:57 keser cherrie haha
19/09/2008 13:10:09 keser cherrie well hopefully its still good
19/09/2008 13:10:10 cherrie keser i think i've eaten a lot
19/09/2008 13:10:15 keser cherrie lol
19/09/2008 13:10:19 keser cherrie its good
19/09/2008 13:10:41 keser cherrie bye my love, i love you all my life
19/09/2008 13:10:51 cherrie keser sorry i can't stay that long
19/09/2008 13:11:16 cherrie keser i thought you're not online.. i was just gonna send you emails
19/09/2008 13:11:26 cherrie keser take care too
19/09/2008 13:11:38 cherrie keser i care for you a lot .. pls take care
19/09/2008 13:11:51 cherrie keser and im always keeping you right here in my heart
19/09/2008 13:12:18 cherrie keser i love that pic
19/09/2008 13:12:20 cherrie keser of yours
19/09/2008 13:12:21 keser cherrie i dont know what to say no more
19/09/2008 13:12:29 keser cherrie i think im history
19/09/2008 13:12:41 cherrie keser don't say anything
19/09/2008 13:12:53 keser cherrie forget the pic
19/09/2008 13:12:58 keser cherrie its rubbish
19/09/2008 13:13:21 keser cherrie like me
19/09/2008 13:13:50 cherrie keser don't say that
19/09/2008 13:14:00 keser cherrie its true
19/09/2008 13:14:19 keser cherrie im not sure what to do
19/09/2008 13:14:26 keser cherrie tell me
19/09/2008 13:14:29 cherrie keser well i don't want to say more...
19/09/2008 13:14:53 keser cherrie ok
19/09/2008 13:15:15 keser cherrie ill always have you in my heart
19/09/2008 13:15:32 cherrie keser i know
19/09/2008 13:15:34 cherrie keser you too
19/09/2008 13:15:50 keser cherrie lol, i thought you went offline then
19/09/2008 13:16:06 keser cherrie should i just move on?
19/09/2008 13:16:12 cherrie keser yeah
19/09/2008 13:16:20 cherrie keser you need to
19/09/2008 13:16:21 keser cherrie ok
19/09/2008 13:16:29 keser cherrie yh, i know
19/09/2008 13:16:33 cherrie keser but one thing is for sure
19/09/2008 13:16:42 keser cherrie what
19/09/2008 13:17:00 cherrie keser though i may not be able to email you often... i will still find time to send you some
19/09/2008 13:17:07 keser cherrie have you got speakers??
19/09/2008 13:17:13 cherrie keser no
19/09/2008 13:17:15 keser cherrie ok
19/09/2008 13:17:16 cherrie keser not ever
19/09/2008 13:17:24 cherrie keser in this pc... i don't own it
19/09/2008 13:17:29 keser cherrie oh
19/09/2008 13:17:31 keser cherrie ok
19/09/2008 13:17:41 cherrie keser my dad always carries the laptop and goes somewhere else
19/09/2008 13:17:47 keser cherrie i love you
19/09/2008 13:17:58 cherrie keser i love you too.......
19/09/2008 13:18:06 cherrie keser i need you to go on with life
19/09/2008 13:18:13 keser cherrie really dont say it if you dont feel
19/09/2008 13:18:16 cherrie keser live it at your bese
19/09/2008 13:18:20 cherrie keser best
19/09/2008 13:18:29 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 13:18:39 keser cherrie i wanna say it again, i need to know
19/09/2008 13:18:49 keser cherrie dont reply if you dont mean it
19/09/2008 13:18:52 keser cherrie here goes]
19/09/2008 13:18:57 keser cherrie i love you
19/09/2008 13:19:25 cherrie keser you're right, i can't say them to you now
19/09/2008 13:19:57 cherrie keser ok
19/09/2008 13:19:58 cherrie keser just that?
19/09/2008 13:20:15 keser cherrie yh
19/09/2008 13:20:23 keser cherrie you better go then
19/09/2008 13:20:37 keser cherrie just leave me to suffer
19/09/2008 13:22:24 keser cherrie what are you still doing here then
19/09/2008 13:22:56 keser cherrie take care then in your life
19/09/2008 13:23:15 cherrie keser i think it's better that you're angry so you forget me easily
19/09/2008 13:23:15 keser cherrie try not to use my all the time
19/09/2008 13:23:32 keser cherrie haha me angry, you get angry
19/09/2008 13:23:42 keser cherrie and how can i forget you
19/09/2008 13:23:53 keser cherrie youre the one wholl forget me
19/09/2008 13:24:17 cherrie keser ok, i don't like how you sound now..
19/09/2008 13:24:21 cherrie keser i'd better go
19/09/2008 13:24:27 keser cherrie i think this time next year youd forgotten my name
19/09/2008 13:24:39 cherrie keser no, i think you will
19/09/2008 13:24:43 keser cherrie no
19/09/2008 13:24:50 cherrie keser i need to go
19/09/2008 13:25:01 keser cherrie how can someone forget another when i still loves them
19/09/2008 13:25:19 cherrie keser someone's here
 

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i know this is long, but i need help desperatly, any advice, anyhow shes not responding anymore, how can i get her back?, ill buy any book, if anyones technique shows some progress
 

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Dude,I'm afraid that you have seriously damaged this relationship beyond repair. It's crazy. You mean well and you have good intentions,but virtually everything you do (whether you realize it or not) only further wrecks your chances with her. You're needy,insecure,unmanly,unmasculine,and you put too much of your power into what this woman says and does towards you.
You want her back,but in your current condition,it wouldn't matter if you did get back with her,in a week or two,she'd just leave again.

There is help for you here,however,you need to make these changes for YOURSELF,whether you get back with her or not. Right now,you're being driven by neediness and clinginess. Dude,just look at your posts,they're dribble. We have a 10 post limit per day here,and in 15 to 20 minutes,you've already burned through 7 of them,spouting insecurity.

Look,as I said before,there is help here. We CAN help you,but you need to do it for yourself,not for some girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sorry mate, basically a woman i fell in love with, everything was fine, but she already had a boyfriend while we met, but she said she fell out of love, few months later shes pregnant with his baby, says ill always be in her heart, but from advice family etc gonna marry him, secondly she wanted support i gave it then few weeks later says doesnt feel for me no more, oh yeah shes 5 yrs older than me, but the most beautifull woman ever, i cant stop my love, maybe cause shes harder to get than anyone else, but i cant help the obsession,

check out my space,
http://cid-4369ef5a49fa5a03.spaces.live.com/
 

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Dude, you may not like this advice, but you've got to let her go. A month ago I wouldn't want to listen, but it's true.

Common advice out there will be to go ganji on her, go no contact, and after a month or so, once you both calmed down, contact her in a nonchalant way to a risk free get together. BUT, the wait will be killing you. I know cuz I did it, and I got her back, and dated her for about 3 weeks, then she dumped again, because she didn't feel the same way anymore, eventhough I did flawlessly.

Do yourself a favor, and follow the advice of people here, Igetit knows what he's talking about, start caring for you, find some new hobbies, go out, distract yourself from the pain. Become someone who loves his life. You deserve a clean start.
 

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thanks daniel, im gonna try to apply it, the worst thing is, i call other woman bye her name, but im going for it, but i got this feeling in the back of my heart, in a few days time ill be doing the same crap, the worst thing is, she was the first one who said she loves me, but she always said shell love me more, i guess a trick, well i did love her more, she never believed that
 
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