"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a cashier at this store and theres this one HB who when she comes in she goes in my line and when and give her eye contact she always has this big smile on her her face. Its obvious she likes me. She came by a few days ago and again last night. I want to either slip her my number or get hers the next time she comes in. Anyone have any tips on this situation? Should I ask for her number or just give her mine,etc?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Oh and BTW this girl is a year or 2 older than me. And shes already graduated from HS.
 

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Try just talking to her.

Another thing that may be kind of cool is before you give her the receipt, grab it and write your name and number down on it.

Or, when telling her the price you could say something like "That'll be $15.75 and your phone number"
 

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Let me tell you something....I am also a cashier but if u wanna DJ at work I would be extreemely carefull, you gotta be sure she is into you. My ex co-worker did the exact thing you propose to do "slip a girl your number" she went to the manager and said she now feels uncomfortable in the store. He got fired.
 

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Oh its obvious she likes me. You'd have to be blind not to see-she gets this big,giggly smile/look on her face. Plus this girl would be the perfect replacement for the now famous manager's daughter who BTW never called me back even though she asked if she could.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well yeah right your number down on the receipt. Tell her something like
"If you have any problems, just call me." *wink*
 

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Hey send them to [email protected] and I will post them for you. lol. or my msn is [email protected]
My yahoo and AIM are aisaac2008

I will have them up with in 10 minutes of recieveing them.
 

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Can you post some more? And on a scale of 1-10 what do you guys rate her? I was thinking about an 8-9.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok well send me links to the pages with ehr pics on them and tell me which ones are her.
 
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