"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to get a tan????

blinkwatt

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I do almost everything shirtless,the lawn,wash the car,anytime I'm outside basically. People comment on how well built I'am,and I'm not gonna lie,it strokes my ego. Now if only I can get a tan I would look that much better. How do you get a tan????
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donjuanjovi

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Tanning is your skins reaction to ultra violet rays from the sun (or tanning bed). Some people will tan more easily than other. To get a tan simply stay out in the sun for extended periods of time. Unfortunately this will also yield a high risk of skin cancer. There are tanning creams you can buy at tanning salons or at most drug stores. I think they would be the safest way to go to get a tan. But if you don't mind a little melanoma than get outside or into a tanning booth.
 

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It really depends on...

1. How dark are you now? (casper/white/olive/tan/dark/black)

2. Where you are in the world (you tan/burn alot faster at the equator)


In general, doing everything outside shirtless should give you a tan but it wouldn't be a clean tan. To get a good one you need to lie in the same position for anywhere between 20-45 minutes, depending on 1) your skin type and 2) where you are in the world

Try lying on a lawn chair facing the sun for 30 minutes, then turn over and tan your back for 30 minutes. Do this afew times a week..
 

arlanda

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I always get red first. The only time I got really tanned was when I spent 2 weeks in Portugal. Other people I know would need 1 week max. so it really depends on the type of skin you have.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus

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BluEyes said:
Try lying on a lawn chair facing the sun for 30 minutes, then turn over and tan your back for 30 minutes. Do this afew times a week..

Step 3.
Slather on aloe because you are now burnt.
 

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How do you get a tan?


Get some sun.

or

Go to a tanning salon
 
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