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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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How to get a emotional response from women!?

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So i've been reading some threads and basically ppl are saying to talk something to women that will make her give an "emotional answer" to you, and she will enjoy the conversation a lot more...
i'm clueless as hell of how to do it...any tips!?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Stroke their vanity and egos.
 
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It's really not like a magical saying or phrase that is going to get a women to give you some sincere emotional response. It's actually more about you, than her.

Think about it. If you are just like any other random guy, that doesn't have much going for you, chances are your questions will be more scripted, or can even give off a "cold" feeling because you are sounding a robot spitting them out. It's hard to really put much into a question/comment when any topic aside from drinking and fantasy football is boring to you.

If you have strong goals, you know exactly what you want, you have confidence in yourself, and you can genuinely present yourself in that way, your conversations with women are going to connect with them more on an emotional level. Your own emotion on a topic will be seen when you ask her, and that is going to trigger the same response from her.

This is actually a huge topic that I'm surprised doesn't get more mention here. That may be because it closely connects to the main point so many posters (and this site in general) preach. Improve yourself and the rest will fall into place. There is no magic switch to flip to get an emotional response from a woman (aside from individual cases where a certain topic really hits home for some random woman). By becoming more interesting yourself and having more substance in your life, this will be a natural change.
 
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bradd80 said:
step 1: ask her things like what her goals are, what makes her happy, where she sees herself in 5 years.

step 2: make it seem like she's the most interesting person in the world.

step 3: pretend to listen.

step 4: watch the panties fly off!
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so pretty much is first step its like a job interview?

step 2 start to undress her with your eyes same for step 3, step 4 make your thinking become real?

:p

really I need to practice more and understand more how to escale things...

but keep teh advices comming its getting good :)
 
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