"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How To Flick Open Their Bra Strap With One Hand

Nighthawk

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Had a couple of PMs regarding this, so I'll share with you all how to perform this guaranteed knicker-wetting move.

I can do this 100& of the time with one lightning-fast flick,usually with my left hand. Women are always shocked and very turned on by this effortless, Fonzie-like skill and it's really not that hard.

Use it when you would normally want to remove a woman's bra, or as a bar-trick that will get you laid.

1. Put your hand up her sweater/boob tube/whatever/ and place your first finger (bent over) against the left clasp of her bra strap.

2. Aply a little pressure so it won't slip, and with your thumb push the right bra strap leftwards, from just behind the clasp. Don't press on the clasp directly or it will not be able to spring out. This will momentarilly cause the bra to tighten a little, but it only needs to move a fraction of an inch to clear the clasp.

3. As the clasps unlock, let go and they should get pulled apart from the sudden lack of tension.

4. Sly smile.

Often the woman will not realise you have undone her bra and will deny it's open. Watch her pupils dilate when she checks and finds the undeniable evidence of your experienced hand.

You can then do this to her anywhere/anytime, not just as a precursor to sex.

I'm sure I'm not the only person here who can do this, but if you can't I suggest you practice now. You will be rewarded for your efforts, I guarantee it.

NB If t'is a front-loader you're ****ed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chillisauce

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i cant even do it with two hands, bras get the better of me every time :(.
 

ethnomethodologist

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Originally posted by ADifferentKindofDJ
I can do it with my teeth... :crackup:
Me too! Takes some getting used to though. Sad thing, I can't do it no matter how hard I try when drunk:p When it gets tot aht point I kiss her back and give her a quick massage and do the sweeping hand motion to take her bra off.

I love your description Nighthawk, I'm going to try that next time. I use my middle finger and apply the pressure over the exposed part of the bra without touching her skin. I guess it's going to get some taking used to as well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If it's really tight tho I don't see how you can get a good enough grip when doing it quickly.

Also I always have to kind of pinch it, which makes it kinda obvious since I get her skin sometimes.
 

ethnomethodologist

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There is a stiff part of the bra... the part that inches up her back, that place right in the middle where they always try to swing around to avoid you seeing them scratch...

That's the clasp part, it's stiffer than the remainder of the bra. Your finger rests upon the underfold of her bra(why you use your left hand, it's built like male/female zippers) no matter how tight it is, all you need is the slightest pressure. Than your thumb pushes the overlapping part of the bra towards your other finger, you give it a slight flick(slight pressure again) and the bra will seperate.

Oftentimes when the girl is still wearing her shirt tightly the straps won't fall to her sides. That is why it is a party trick, it feels like nothing has moved, when in reality the hooks are now resting on top of the loops, instead of clasped undereath as is normal.
 
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