“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lynch1000s

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Not necessarily with women, but with everyone, but certainly applicable to women.

What if you text someone and say, "what did you do last night", and they respond, "well I went to the movies with some friends," basically answering a question with a statement, and no return questions.

If you have nothing else to say, do you just quit texting, or do you say something like "cool?"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How about asking better questions which will lead to better answers?

Think of it like going on a date with a woman and asking her what her favorite food is. I'm sure she has only been asked this question oh I don't know A MILLION TIMES!

You gotta push the envelope that's what women are attracted to. Get rid of the nice and fluffy talk and have some conversations on subjects she isn't expecting you to talk about. Be different from every other guy.
 

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But what if you don't want to ask better questions?

I mean, what if you are just talking to someone, and ask a quick question, and they just say "yes." Do you just stop texting, or say something like "okay?"
 

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lynch1000s said:
But what if you don't want to ask better questions?

I mean, what if you are just talking to someone, and ask a quick question, and they just say "yes." Do you just stop texting, or say something like "okay?"
You stop texting. When the answer is ok or cool, or i see, its unecessary to text.
Correct me if im wrong but I think you're lacking basic conversational skills, for ex. if they dont ask a question back you assume the convo is over. not good man. If they say they went out to the movies with friends, you can respond with something like "awesome i wanted to go to the movies last night too, what did you see?"
Learn to use the 'statement then question' format of conversation
 

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lynch1000s said:
Not necessarily with women, but with everyone, but certainly applicable to women.

What if you text someone and say, "what did you do last night", and they respond, "well I went to the movies with some friends," basically answering a question with a statement, and no return questions.

If you have nothing else to say, do you just quit texting, or do you say something like "cool?"
What is the point of your interaction...

Remember: The meaning of your interaction is the response that you get. If you get a simple boring response - than you interaction meant nothing.

IF we want to play the "what if" game (instead of realizing that asking what someone did last night is cliche) then you can still work with "well i went to the movies with some friends"


Me: What did you do last night? (i haven't asked such a question in 5+ years)
HB: Well i went to the movies with some friends.


Now you can continue with your boriningness:
Me: Oh, what movies did you see?


or you can do something like insert a sexual innuendo:
Me: Oh, i didn't know you were old enough to see those kinds of movies.


or you can just not ask boring questions (but if you must; then by all means continue down the boring road)....

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Hardcore neg the b!tch if you want...
Me: Did you have fun last night?
HB: Yes!
Me: Oh wow, an explanation point! Is that supposed to make up for your lack of intelligence.

what does it matter?


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or make it romantically disgusting...

Me: Yes or no?
HB: hmmmm.... no!
Me: Oh fvck.... i was hoping we were going to have a little me. Guess we gotta keep filling you with creampies you little slVt...

again, it doesn't matter. if she's into you - she'll like whatever you say. If she's not - there's not much you're going to be able to do through text. Best to meet up and try to change that (assuming you don't flake)...

Women giving no value/response normally = a woman with low interest.

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Im shying more and more away from text. I KNOW women love it, but you can get so much more done being face to face with someone. You have so many more options.

There are some women obsessed with texting who will not allow rapport in person unless you can gain it through text. I realize this.... But could care less.... I'm actually considering getting text turned off on my phone.... People have no point to their lives anymore.... they just do social media and text..... but that's another rant for another thread.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you have text conversations, it has to be only with a girl that lives FAR away from you. You end it with. "TALK TO YOU SOON ;)
 
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