"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how to DJ this girl at work...

Ken785

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there this girl at work i like...we work at a retail electronics store.
i talked to her for a little bit when she was ringing me up for a drink...turns out she goes to the same school and is the same major as me.

i can tell he IL is pretty high...i want to make it real high.

but i dont know what to talk about besides school....i know some of you are going to tell me to read the bible and all that but i just want tips on how you guys would approach the situation...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJuanMonk

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Screw hip hop music, I can be a hip hop dj just like the phat bros niggas yo yo yo. I just change stations on 3 stations that play generic top 40 hip hop rap hop riff raff nigga wassup music.

Now I gotta put on a huge striped shirt and shave my head to 1mm now, and put on some ralph lauren cologne, ya dig?

JA RULE!
 

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Originally posted by Ken785
there this girl at work i like...we work at a retail electronics store.
i talked to her for a little bit when she was ringing me up for a drink...turns out she goes to the same school and is the same major as me.

i can tell he IL is pretty high...i want to make it real high.

but i dont know what to talk about besides school....i know some of you are going to tell me to read the bible and all that but i just want tips on how you guys would approach the situation...
Ask her out ... simple and easy ! Don't make big deal out of small ****.
 
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