"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to DJ on Video

Smooth Player 056

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Im trying to work something out where I get a few DJ's together and we go do tons of approaches with a hidden camera. i think people would benefit from this so they can see first hand how its done. Then I could post it here. Do you guys think it would be a good Idea?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GrandMaster

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why is it illegal?
jackass and all that crap isnt illegal either is it? and why hide the fcuking camera. do you care what does biatches think?

just be a dj so da whoes dont notice the cam. or they dont care because they found YOU!
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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Nah, its completely different if they see the camera. If the chick sees the camera she knows other people are going to be watching it, so she wont be herself. She'll sit all proper, suck in her stoumach, conversation just wont flow right, and besides, you look LIKE A BIG PVSYY because you need a friggin camera to get women to talk with you.
 

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Hidden camera is much better. Here's what you can do. Wear audio recording equipment, could use a minidisc recorder in your pocket since they're not suspicious. Then have a friend film video on a hidden cam that he could wear. This way you get cosistent audio and different angles (of body language for instance) since your friend is free to move around while you're talking. You can combine video and audio tracks later and compile a movie. My friend done something like that for his college project.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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snintel

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Originally posted by GrandMaster
why is it illegal?
jackass and all that crap isnt illegal either is it? and why hide the fcuking camera. do you care what does biatches think?

just be a dj so da whoes dont notice the cam. or they dont care because they found YOU!
Uh, it's illegal if you don't get every single person who appears to sign a release form. Otherwise you have to blur out their faces. This is if you plan to distribute the video. (Broadcast/internet/etc)
 

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Just do it man, hand it out on forums and let other people put it up on big download sites. And dont put your name or anything in the credits, no way they could track you !!
 

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you can blur her face and everyones face for that matter..... yea face expressions are important but theyre more important on the DJ side
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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